Ok so our "20" week scan is next week and i have said from the start that this time i want a surprise and as it will be our last and Aldready have boy n girl anyway so am not to fussed about what it is although I would maybe like a girl but dont mind. On the otherhand my partner has been having a paddy and wants to know what it is and doesnt want to wait and find out and says im being silly waiting when we could prepare in advance and get everything we need ahead. Now i dont know what to do. Do i just find out and have over and done with or go into that scan room and come home with him all moody and sulky which i know he will haha. We found out last time at scans with previous kids. What would u do.