Also i can never understand why when a women has been told there high risk and a home birth is not recommended why they would fight it and put them and baby at risk
Because that woman has researched into the reasons why she is considered high risk and has made an informed choice to take those risks?
I am high risk. With my first birth, I had a retained placenta, a bleed, and I am overweight which means I am at risk of shoulder dystocia.
Firstly, R.E. shoulder dystocia, I have already given birth to a largish baby normally and easily. In the event of baby getting a little stuck, midwives are trained in maneuverers that free the baby. Often there will be signs that the midwife will be looking for, and she may feel the baby will get stuck and advise me to transfer to hospital, and I would certainly take her concerns seriously.
For the retained placenta, I am at risk of having one again. However, nobody can say for sure WHY I had one in the first place. They just happen. What I do know is I had an epidural (that failed), a managed third stage, and my labour was augmented with a drip. ALL of these things increase the risk of retained placenta. I have chosen to reduce my risk by having a homebirth away from these things, and at least trying for a physiological third stage.
As for my bleed, as I have been told by the consultant midwife at my hospital while we talked through my birth plan, it is very rare for a woman to bleed to death indeed. I lost a litre of blood after my first blood, and was quite poorly afterwards. Still, I had to wait 5 hours to get to theatre for them to sort it out. If I had another retained placenta, transfer to hospital would take half an hour, in which case I am still far more likely to have it sorted out before the point I did with my first.
First time mums in my area are actively encouraged to have a home birth.
because they are far more likely to have a successful natural birth then if they were to attempt it in hospital, which in the long run saves money for the local health trust.
Risk is not as black and white as you believe it to be. It is important to go through those risks and access what is acceptable to you as an individual. There is no "you shouldn't do it if you're high risk"!
Risk is very objective, depending on how it is presented. For example, I can tell you that the risk of stillbirth doubles if you give birth after 42 weeks. Sounds horrendous, right? But would you feel the same way if I was to tell you that the risk of still birth after 42 weeks increases from 1% to 3%?
Each and every one of us makes decisions involving risk everyday. Birth is no different.