Sheesh you ladies can TALK!! lmao! Even while reading the last TEN pages, you all managed to talk your way on to another page!!! Lol
Anyway, so far all the predictors say girl for me. I really want a girl, so I am not sure if it is intuition or wishful thinking!!! But I do think/hope I'm having a girl.
I am not convinced I'll have any scans, but certainly not any early ones.
Someone asked where we all live; I am in New Zealand.
Someone else asked about work? I am a SAHM and will continue to be. I DID think I would go back to my old job after I had my first. I loooooved my job, and had put my heart and soul in to the business for years. I was CERTAIN I would go back. Hah! I had nooooo freeking idea!!! The incredible bond, the depth of love, the fact it utterly tore me apart to even THINK about someone else looking after him.... I wanted to hold my baby,not go back to work!!! So I didn't. Hardest time of my life then, going through those emotions, the pain and feeling so distraught over what to do. But I eventually realised that I would NEVER regret staying home with my boy. I can always go back to my career!! My mum has a great career now all us kids are gone. I can do that too. I can never come back to my baby boy. I am so glad. As hard as it was, I am so glad I decided to give up work. Money is damn tight at times, but we make it work.
And now we are in limbo waiting to hear, hopefully tomorrow, if we have to up and move house to a new job for hubby! As stressful as it will be, I do hope we do it, it is a big step towards our ultimate dreams.