Babies due in JUNE!

[sadie]

I think that depends, ellie. I have a couple of people that want to buy us an expensive gift because it will help us out and they have the $, so I will add those to the registry to let them 'surprise' us. (the stroller is the biggie)

 

[Ellie Bellie]

Sadie - you would register for a stroller anyways, right? Are you going to register for an extra expensive stroller on the off-chance that these people buy it for you? I don't mean that you shouldn't have a broad price range of items on the registry - I've got the crib and travel system listed on there and they're quite pricey. It's more that I wouldn't register for a more expensive (fill in the blank) than I would buy for myself. Does that make sense? I wouldn't register for the Mercedes Benz of baby gear when I'd only be willing to pay for the Honda myself - either way, I'd still be getting a car.

 

[sadie]

I understand what you're saying. I am definitely registering for a more expensive stroller because I was told to add some "high quality" items for them to choose from. No way would we spend that much for a stroller, but they want to, which is why I will add it to the list. (at their request!)
I think people are happy to buy us gifts; everyone has their own budget, so it's nice to give the gift givers a range of price tags to choose from. Reminds me of the holidays and birthdays. there are some things that I wouldn't buy for myself, so I provide that list to others to choose from or to come up with their own gift. Dunno. That's just me.


*We aren't listing furniture because I will be moving across the ocean. So, the stroller-combo is the only big thing I can think we will need atm...

 

[Ellie Bellie]

Sadie - I think that's a big point as well, these people ASKED to get you something more expensive. I'm all for having some splurges in there as well, since it's a bit of a treat as well. I've known people who EXPECT the expensive things from others and don't seem to really appreciate what others can actually afford to give. When it comes down to it, do you really NEED everything on the registry? Of course not! But it's all about balance.

I spoke with my parents this evening and they indicated that they'd want to help with some of the furniture, etc. Mom said that she also viewed grandparents as getting more of the splurge items for the baby, extra things that are more fun.

I'm going to visit with them in 2 weekends and she said she'd like to go over the registry and maybe pick out some things then. We'll hopefully know the gender by then, so it should be easier to make decisions. Mom will be recovering from a hip replacement (surgery's tomorrow) so we'll be poking around on the internet together, while Dad's in charge of research with Consumer Reports.

 

[lilmamatoW]

For those for whom it's the 2nd time around or more- are you doing registries? My thinking...I will do it for some items at BabiesRUs and some other place maybe, but not for sake of a shower, rather for the total discount and notification on recalls, sales, etc. What are you guys thinking/doing?

Not doing a registry. I think it's a bit much if you've done it once before and you've been "showered" before. I usually don't see it for second babies.

 

[lilmamatoW]

Sadie - I think that's a big point as well, these people ASKED to get you something more expensive. I'm all for having some splurges in there as well, since it's a bit of a treat as well. I've known people who EXPECT the expensive things from others and don't seem to really appreciate what others can actually afford to give. When it comes down to it, do you really NEED everything on the registry? Of course not! But it's all about balance.

I spoke with my parents this evening and they indicated that they'd want to help with some of the furniture, etc. Mom said that she also viewed grandparents as getting more of the splurge items for the baby, extra things that are more fun.

I'm going to visit with them in 2 weekends and she said she'd like to go over the registry and maybe pick out some things then. We'll hopefully know the gender by then, so it should be easier to make decisions. Mom will be recovering from a hip replacement (surgery's tomorrow) so we'll be poking around on the internet together, while Dad's in charge of research with Consumer Reports.

I think you should register for everything and anything that you desire. For a couple reasons, give your gift-givers a lot of options and later when your shower is all done, you can go to "complete" your registry and buy items for yourself and you can usually receive a discount for those items that are left on your registry. We got a lot of items, some big-ticket ones too, from the completion discount for baby #1.

 

[StarSign]

Ladies, take a look at this portable bassinet. I thought I was done/set on how we'd have LO in our room for the first couple of months, but instead of the crib, or lowering rail on baby bed, or IN our bed, I'm really thinking I'm going to give this a go!! It also helps finicky babies and those with acid-reflux/GERD
https://www.fisher-price.com/img/product_shots/R6070_b_1.jpg
https://reviews.fisher-price.com/6194/51903/reviews.htm?page=2

 

[Sunshine12]

That looks cute Starsign. Very good reviews.

Im going to use a Moses basket (not sure what you guys call that.)

Have you guys thought about how long (if at all) baby will be in your room? I know that its recommended 6 months because it reduces SIDS but Im planning on baby being in our room for about 2 months then moving to nursery (obviously that may change depending on how I feel once little on is here)

Nursery is really big so Im having a double bed in it as well as cot bed for baby so I can sleep in there if I want to (and might be easier whilst Im breastfeeding and maybe want to sleep in babys room sometimes.) x

 

[StarSign]

The Moses basket is basically a bassinet without legs in the US.

My LO was terrified even at 3mos at being alone. But, I pushed the issue at 9mos. Our room is big, so she was in her own bed, but just in eye line sight of us. I think you give it a go and see what happens. I was a working USA Mom, so I only had the first 3 months really to get her in rhythm and get myself back into working mode. However, since I was breastfeeding, it saved my sanity not to have to go all the way down the hall. I could feed her then re-snuggle with my human bed warmer DH

 

[lilmamatoW]

I'm not one for sleeping in the same room with the baby. #1 came home and went straight to her room in her crib so I suspect we will do the same thing with #2. To this day, #1 can't sleep with anyone else in a bed. Kind of thankful for it, actually.

 

[Sunshine12]

The Moses basket is basically a bassinet without legs in the US.

My LO was terrified even at 3mos at being alone. But, I pushed the issue at 9mos. Our room is big, so she was in her own bed, but just in eye line sight of us. I think you give it a go and see what happens. I was a working USA Mom, so I only had the first 3 months really to get her in rhythm and get myself back into working mode. However, since I was breastfeeding, it saved my sanity not to have to go all the way down the hall. I could feed her then re-snuggle with my human bed warmer DH

Thats partly why Im worried about having baby in my room at all as I dont want him/her becoming fearful of being on its own or feeling dependant on me being there in order to sleep. My sister put both her babies in their own room straight away and they were perfect sleepers. I guess Ill just have to wait and see. Thanks hun.x

 

[Ferne]

Amnio results still not in. This is getting nerve racking. Apparently, the lab didn't receive them until yesterday (they were supposed to have received them on Friday).

 

[Sunshine12]

Amnio results still not in. This is getting nerve racking. Apparently, the lab didn't receive them until yesterday (they were supposed to have received them on Friday).

Goodness thats terrible you are having to wait Ferne. Have they said how long it might be now the lab have them?? x

 

[Ferne]

I called yesterday for the results and that's when they told me that they weren't received until Mon. I called today and left a message for a nurse to call me back. Still waiting...

 

[Sunshine12]

I called yesterday for the results and that's when they told me that they weren't received until Mon. I called today and left a message for a nurse to call me back. Still waiting...

Thats ridiculous when they must know how nervous you must be. Keep us posted. xxx

 

[sadie]

Very annoying Ferne. Might the lab have been closed yesterday because of the holiday or isnthe delay due to the time the amnio was performed?
i'm sorry you have to deal with the stress of waiting.

@StarSign- great reviews and it's cute, too.

@Sunshine- I plan to have baby in my bedroom with me (OH will be with me for the first two weeks, then he goes home. i join him approx 8 weeks after birth)

in Italy, baby's room is right next to ours so I guess we will see how baby is doing once we arrive to a new home.


is it true that babies will breastfeed every 2-3 hours? For how long does that schedule last for? I'd like to bf for about 4-6 months. I hope!

Also, anyone have exoerience with flying with a newborn? Is the basic rule 8 weeks after birth that they can fly? (due to immunity issues)

Thanks.

 

[Ferne]

Got the initial test results. The doctor apparently called the WRONG number this morning and left a message there - I told the front desk that they had the wrong number for me last month but I guess they never corrected it.

The initial results are all good.

Thanks AGAIN for your support everybody! It really helped me a lot.

 

[sadie]

Woohoo! Great news, Ferne!!

 

[Ferne]

Thanks Sadie! I'll sleep a little better tonight...I hope.

 

[Sunshine12]

Great new Ferne. Really happy for you. xx

Sadie, Im sure they can fly prior to that but if you can wait till 8 weeks its probably better. How are you working it for your OH coming over (i.e knowing when to or is he coming over in advance and just staying till you have baby?)

Re breastfeeding, yes I believe so but depends on baby. Im going to express if I can (after 6/8 weeks) sometimes so that OH can do feeds too.

Ive had no more kicks since the first time a few days ago. I wish this baby would be a bit more consistent! lol