jade1991
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Hi everyone! I'm creeping over early mainly because I feel this maybe isn't a post for 1st tri.
Basically with my daughter I had a horrendous labour, ended in forceps, but the whole experience was terrible, a midwife did an unauthorised sweep and said she wouldn't, baby's heart rate was all over the place so I wasn't allowed any further pain relief, sent home twice even though I was in agony, and had a 9lb3 baby even though I was told to expect a 5/6lber.... basically after the labour around 4 months after I was diagnosed with PTSD, following on from that. To this day I've never been back to 100% but I did have a bit of postnatal depression too.
I've spoken with my midwife and she is suggesting referring me to a birth specialist and mental health team to prevent this happening again.. but obviously this won't be for another number of weeks.
Has anyone got any experience of similar situations and how you dealt with the next labour/what was put in place for you?
She has said that they'll monitor with growth scans nearer to the end to prevent the same massive misjudgement (my bump always measured 3 weeks too small!!).. but yeah, I'm just kinda looking for some familiarity and a little bit of positive reassurance haha. Hope everyone is well!! X
Basically with my daughter I had a horrendous labour, ended in forceps, but the whole experience was terrible, a midwife did an unauthorised sweep and said she wouldn't, baby's heart rate was all over the place so I wasn't allowed any further pain relief, sent home twice even though I was in agony, and had a 9lb3 baby even though I was told to expect a 5/6lber.... basically after the labour around 4 months after I was diagnosed with PTSD, following on from that. To this day I've never been back to 100% but I did have a bit of postnatal depression too.
I've spoken with my midwife and she is suggesting referring me to a birth specialist and mental health team to prevent this happening again.. but obviously this won't be for another number of weeks.
Has anyone got any experience of similar situations and how you dealt with the next labour/what was put in place for you?
She has said that they'll monitor with growth scans nearer to the end to prevent the same massive misjudgement (my bump always measured 3 weeks too small!!).. but yeah, I'm just kinda looking for some familiarity and a little bit of positive reassurance haha. Hope everyone is well!! X