Baby and Bump SAVED OUR LIVES

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Hello!

I've been visiting this site obsessively since getting my BFP on 25th Dec 2010 (best Christmas present EVER!) i've never posted before but feel it is very important to.

I'd been having the most straight forward pregnancy - no morning sickness, energy levels fine. The only difference was a huge increase in appetite, especially for junk :/

I started to get headaches and swelling around my 22nd week - fingers would bloat, ankles would get very tight, especially towards the end of the day. It didn't help that my job is office based and sitting down I could literally feel fluid heading south.

I had my 25/40 midwife check - I mentioned the headaches and swelling and was told to make sure to keep feet raised as much as possible. The midwife checked my urine for protein. It came back with the highest reading of +5. The midwife seemed really concerned and asked me to give a second urine sample, again it came back +5. She told me that perhaps the reading was high because the samples i'd provided were both quite small. She said it could be the high concentration giving off such a high reading. She asked me to go away for a few minutes, drink as much as possible and provide a third sample. I did and this time it came back much lower protein. I was a little shaken but felt reassured by the time i'd left the midwife.

I'd read on here that swelling could be a sign of pre-eclampsia but didn't think too much of it. I also read that headaches and sudden swelling in the face, especially the eyes is something that needs to be checked out.

On 25+5 I woke up with a swollen face. My eyes had puffed out so I called the labour ward and they told me to come in immediately. Then it all spiralled out of control....

-protein in my urine was very high +5 again
-my headache worsened
-my whole face, neck, arms, knees, feet had swollen massively
-chest began to tighten

My blood pressure had rocketed, they thought I had pre-eclampsia and I was told they needed to admit me to another hospital for more checks and somewhere with a specialised neonatal care unit in case they needed to deliver my son urgently.

The following morning, my condition had worsened. They sent me for an ultrasound and I was told the baby was measuring small. He wasn't getting enough blood and fluids around him were low. The doctors explained I might have to have a c-section within the next week.

The next day I woke up in hospital with a blinding headache and tight chest. Baby wasn't doing well and neither was I. The doctors told me I'd be having an emergency c-section that day. I was given a couple of steroid injections to help my son's lungs mature.

On the 25th May at 14:54 Ciaran was born weighing 640g, he cried three times, which the doctors seemed very shocked at. Within an hour, my swelling began to go down, chest loosened and my head was clear. I spent 6 more days in hospital until my blood pressure had come down and am now resting at home

Ciaran was taken to the neonatal unit - at first he had issues with trying to stabilise and now is doing well. Its one day at a time but I have every faith he's coming home soon.

The reason for my post is just to reinforce never to take any symptoms lightly. Going to the hospital to get checked out, at worst will be a waste of a few hours. For me, it saved me and my sons life.

Love to all x
 
Oh my goodness, what a terrible time you've been through.

Congratulations on you baby boy. :) So happy to hear your both well. :)

xx
 
oh sorry u have had such a rough time
but congrats on your lil boy n hope all goes well x
 
Congrats - glad all is getting better. Love to you lil' man too :hugs:
 
ooh what a rollercoaster! Congratulations on the birth of your son!!! Welcome Ciaran - I love that name ;)

You must be feeling all over the place - I went through the same scenario, down to the details! The only difference is my condition took two weeks to get that serious. 640g though small is still a good weight - my son was smaller than that and he's fine :hugs:

I hope you are resting comfortably at home. The first few days are always rough and can be very scary. Don't hesitate to call the neonatal ward with any questions you might have!! Ask if there's a preemie support group at the hospital - that helped me a LOT during the first few hard weeks. What a great attitude you have - one day at a time, and envisioning him coming home in a few short weeks. Before you know it he'll be home bawling and keeping you up 24/7 and you'll wonder whatever possessed you to have a baby (ok ok joking, sort of - I did have that stray thought at one point haha)

Congrats again and welcome! Please don't hesitate to ask any questions to the wonderful ladies here!
 
Thanks for all the love and wishes girls :happydance:

I love my boy more than I could have ever imagined, he's still so tiny but I CANNOT WAIT for the day the skies fill with sunshine and he's in my arms at home.

Here's a piccy

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Wow, what a story :)

Sending loads of "getting stronger" vibes in Ciaran's direction :kiss:
 
Congrats on your baby boy. He is adorable. I had a similar experience with the pre eclampsia. Dont worry the time will fly by and he will be home before you know it.

Best,
Stephanie
 
Congrats on your baby boy. He is adorable. I had a similar experience with the pre eclampsia. Dont worry the time will fly by and he will be home before you know it.

Best,
Stephanie
 
WOW, I also had pre eclamsia it was not as sever as yours, but i also went into the hospital because of a bnb post and stayed their until i delivered my son, i am glad your LO is doing well and you are recovering :hugs:
 
YEP ! I did had pre E too ( actually with both of my pregnancies -sucks I know lol-)

CONGRATS, and we ll be here if you need ANYTHING ok?
NICU can be a rollercoaster of emotions and extra support is always welcome =)
My lil lady was born 9 weeks early and still at the hospital ( 33 days and counting)

BUT she is doing good =D

I really hope I can see u around sharing great news about your LO !

*hugs*
 
Hi there
Congratulations on the birth of your son. My heart goes out to you as i have a very similar story. I had severe pre eclamcia with all the symptoms, i went into hospital at 24 weeks and had Oliver 25+1 at 1 pound 4oz. It all started going downhill about 16 weeks and at 22 weeks i was sent to see a consultant who told me there was nothing wrong despite the swelling on my left side. I had read all about pre eclamcia but he told me to stop worrying go home and enjoy my pregnancy. Oliver and I are very lucky to be here and I am so lucky that i have no major lasting side effects.:thumbup:
Oliver has just come home after 5 and a half months and is amazing considering what hes been through. He's a little miracle as is your little boy. If you ever need to chat or ask anything please get in touch.
Big Hug x:hugs:
 
:flower:

Ciaran is doing well, he opened his eyes for me for the first time on Weds night! It was so amazing, his eyes are like tiny green (?!) marbles.. They've taken him off the muscle relaxant so he was squirming all about. Oxygen levels are improving and doctor said as long as he remains stable they'll start him on milk. I have been expressing like a mad woman lol so very happy about that!

Big hugs to all you ladies..

"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall"
- Nelson Mandela
 

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