baby clothes left on desk!!!!!!

[moomoo]

How f*cking stupid can one person be??!

As if having 3 preg people in my office isnt bad enough, the girl who sits next to me has baby clothes on her desk! grrrrrrr

How ignorant can they be!!

 

[sam's mum]

Some people only think of themselves

So sorry she's being so insensitive x

 

[moomoo]

thanks sam's mum

What makes it worse is that she put it out in front of her, folded it neatly then placed it back onto her books on top of her desk!!

It was like - oh if you havent seen this yet its my baby clothes, and they are sat here on my desk!!!

God im sooooo angry!!

 

[Drazic<3]

Oh thats so selfish and insensitive.
Im so sorry hunny

 

[Jkelmum]

Iam afraid some people only think of themselves sorry you are being put through this xx

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

does she no u lost a baby? maybe she didnt ealise so many ppl get excited when there pregnant they forget.

 

[natthecat]

some people don't realise what they are doing and others i guess it sounds are just damn idiots.

 

[cleckner04]

OMG!! I would have had to resist screaming at her. You poor thing. Some people are just jerks. Plain and simple. I have a friend that all she talks about is her baby. I can't even get one simple email or one sentence comment from her without a 'the baby is just getting into everything now' or 'she's teething and keeping me up at night' or really anything mentioning her baby... I just want to tell her at least she has a baby to moan about! I hope it gets better for you though. Some women just have no clue I think. She may not even realize it upsets you.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I'm sorry she was so inconsiderate, Moomoo.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

does she no u lost a baby? maybe she didnt ealise so many ppl get excited when there pregnant they forget.

Hmmm that's a good point.

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

does she no u lost a baby? maybe she didnt ealise so many ppl get excited when there pregnant they forget.

Hmmm that's a good point.

maybe this is this girls first baby and she doesnt realise and is just happy to behaving a baby. she might have had troubles herself,

just try be happy hun and dont jump at every preg lady coz itl rip u appart

 

[moomoo]

Yeh it is her first, and yes she does know that i m/c 6 weeks ago. Thats what makes it worse...how about put the baby clothes away...then everyone doesnt make passing comments on how cute it is... grrrr

Maybe im being sensitive, but it feels like my tummy ties in knots everytime

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

i no its hard hunnie but i learnt u cnt be angry at everyone forever. i spent a long time being angry with a pregnant woman.. it drove me mad. shes my sister! it wasnt gd.

as hard as it is you have to remember that shes excited about her baby and just wants ppl 2 share her joy. im sure shes nt doing it to be spiteful. im sure u wuddnt want her 2 be sad and not happy threw her pregnancy.

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

How terrible and insensitive. People are total jerks sometimes.

 

[dizzy65]

awe

 

[sparkswillfly]

It is very insensitive and selfish. xx

 

[haaza123]

Hey i know how you been feeling. At my workplace there's two girls who are pregnant. The hot topic of conversation in the staffroom and rooms are babies. Its the hardest thing to listen to for me. I think people expect you to get over it and think that your fine because you seem happier (they don't realise that its a mask to hide your true feelings). It really hurts when clothes and things get flashed in front of your face continously. People dont understand unless they have been through it themselves. Its sad but its reality, i found that out.

Take each day as it goes.

 

[charliesmom]

Yup, I agree with haaza123. My sister in law is pregnant with #2... I just m/ced for the second time in Sept, she knows about both... but during thanksgiving, she kept commenting about her current pregnancy. It was hard for me because I was very sensitive on the inside, but on the outside, I looked like I was completely over it. Nope. I cried in the bathroom.

I could have gotten really angry with her "showing off" her pregnancy, but I turned the situation around and decided that she is only extremely happy for herself and isn't being extremely careful around me because I look so normal on the outside.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, try not to take it too personally. I'm sure they don't mean to flaunt in front of you. They're just so consumed in their excitement.

 

[JASMAK]

Ugh!

 

[Chris77]

Hun, I'm so sorry. That was terribly selfish and inconsiderate of her! I really don't understand people like this!!