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gembex
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Hello ladies. I'm posting because I'm feeling very down in the dumps. I'm hoping maybe someone may have been in a similar situation and/or maybe you could offer me some advice.
I'm 8w4d pregnant, and after initially being quite excited, 'daddy' has now had a u-turn. He decided he wasn't ready to be a father and wanted me to abort which I made quite clear was not happening.
However despite wanting me to abort, he also wants to be part of baby's life and the pregnancy now it's going ahead. The thing is, he's full of resentment towards me as he feels he has had no choice in the situation. He's been so cold towards me and scans to date have been awkward and unpleasant. He questions dates with medical staff and seems totally absorbed with his own feelings and how he's coping. I'm beginning to feel hated.
However he still pops up weekly and asks how we both are, checks dates of appts etc.
I'm struggling as this has been going on for weeks. Underneath I know he's not a bad man but the whole situation is bringing me down and I'm starting to feel depressed and teary.
Underneath I still have feelings for him. I miss him not bring around yet at the same time I could throttle him for the way he's treating me.
I don't know whether to entertain the idea that he may come round or whether to wipe him and the upset from my life for a bit. I can't keep feeling this way as its surely not good for baby.
I'm 8w4d pregnant, and after initially being quite excited, 'daddy' has now had a u-turn. He decided he wasn't ready to be a father and wanted me to abort which I made quite clear was not happening.
However despite wanting me to abort, he also wants to be part of baby's life and the pregnancy now it's going ahead. The thing is, he's full of resentment towards me as he feels he has had no choice in the situation. He's been so cold towards me and scans to date have been awkward and unpleasant. He questions dates with medical staff and seems totally absorbed with his own feelings and how he's coping. I'm beginning to feel hated.
However he still pops up weekly and asks how we both are, checks dates of appts etc.
I'm struggling as this has been going on for weeks. Underneath I know he's not a bad man but the whole situation is bringing me down and I'm starting to feel depressed and teary.
Underneath I still have feelings for him. I miss him not bring around yet at the same time I could throttle him for the way he's treating me.
I don't know whether to entertain the idea that he may come round or whether to wipe him and the upset from my life for a bit. I can't keep feeling this way as its surely not good for baby.