I've been searching for a forum to ask this question, and I'm hoping I found a suitable one..
I've come to the realization that I want to have a baby. I thought I wanted to adopt, but the more I think about it, the more I want to have my own flesh and blood..
What bothers me is the health of my husband and myself. I suffer with thyroid problems (which are highly hereditary), anxiety, and mild depression, and my husband used to have epilepsy and asthma when he was very young, and also suffers from mild depression. the fact that I get horrible breakouts and he has sensitive dandruff prone skin doesnt make things much better either (lol we sound like a winning pair XP).
Now, I don't want to have a child and pass on these traits.. especially the thyroid and depression issues.. i wouldnt wish them on anyone.
would it be selfish of me to want to try and conceive anyways, despite these issues?
Your opinion and honesty is appreciated
I've come to the realization that I want to have a baby. I thought I wanted to adopt, but the more I think about it, the more I want to have my own flesh and blood..
What bothers me is the health of my husband and myself. I suffer with thyroid problems (which are highly hereditary), anxiety, and mild depression, and my husband used to have epilepsy and asthma when he was very young, and also suffers from mild depression. the fact that I get horrible breakouts and he has sensitive dandruff prone skin doesnt make things much better either (lol we sound like a winning pair XP).
Now, I don't want to have a child and pass on these traits.. especially the thyroid and depression issues.. i wouldnt wish them on anyone.
would it be selfish of me to want to try and conceive anyways, despite these issues?
Your opinion and honesty is appreciated