BD'ing my butt off--whose in it for November??

[bazzb]

I got off the pill last jan
Ntnp til June
Then used opk in July od around cd 23 I think and boom preggo
Before m mc my cycles ranked from 35-46 days
Since my mc my body is screwed it seems

 

[gnomette]

Jenna Yeh your sisters right some people you just all of a sudden won't see anymore cause your busy with your lo an going out all the time is just not possible but its ok cause some of them really will stick around an you may not see them as much as you did but you will look forward to it x I have a friend who I still see an still text who I met in elc she worked there an I used to take my son in x
Tara sorry your feeling down ttc officially sucks I know its awful but we will get there when I work nights I hate it I barely see my husband part from an hour in the evening an possibly half hour in the morning its awful x hugs as always x were in it til the end don't forget x
Hope everyone is ok x loves as always

 

[Womble12]

Sorry everyone's feeling a bit down.

Bailey I still got fx maybe you ovulated, hope your doc can get you some blooming answers, I feel exhausted for you hun.

Tara TTC is just shit and it's so shit how some people just fall pregnant. They will never know how hard and frustrating it is. Hope you feel better soon.

Naomi, that does sound rubbish with not seeing your hubby, when you supposed to fit in the bd'ing after all!

Jenna, I completely sympathise with your situation. I think until your mates who don't have kids have them, they just won't understand. A couple of my mates have been supportive but also expecting me still to come out but not drink, but not just go out, they think I should be going away with them for boozy weekends, & I'm just like 1. I can't afford it, I'm buying a house and having a baby, and 2. Why would I wanna go away when everyone's gonna be drinking loads and I can't?! True friends won't care and won't pressure you. It's funny me saying that as one of my friends pressuring me is one I'm bridesmaid for, some friend she is!! Anyway, hope you're ok, don't feel lonely, we're here.

Big hugs to everyone else too. Xxxx

 

[mackjess]

I hear ya Dolly. My best friend of 14 years has 3 kids, 2 of them she had about a year after we started hanging out when we were only 22. I am her only "before" kids friend that she still has. She doesn't dwell on it much since lives change with kids and she has a new stock of friends now. Just every now and then she will realize it and be like, wow, you are the only person that I still talk to on a regular basis. I'm sure at the time it was tough but she seems to be fine with it now. And some of it was her doing when people didn't understand she couldn't be irresponsible, or couldn't figure out why after being at work 40+ hours a week and missing her babies, she'd want to stay around the house on the weekends.

 

[mtln777]

Happy 27 weeks Jenna and Jess............I know its 1 day early but GREAT accomplishment u mommies xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo Tara

Naomi and Bailey CUD SOMEONE JUST GET US PREGNANT ALREADY.......

Lots of love and hugs xoxoxoxoxoxo

 

[gnomette]

Sophie I only do 2nights separated cause I need to look after dd the day after I have been working but it means once we fall asleep tonight I wont see him properly til Wednesday when he finishes work its better than when I did 3nights all together that really did suck I wouldn't see him from Sunday afternoon til wed every week x I suppose its the same amount of time its just not all in one go now x
I was a mummy at 19 (an single) I was the first to have kids so I ended up really lonely but it never bothered me once I had my son it didn't matter I just enjoyed going to sleep at night an getting a couple of hours solid before my son got up an vegging on the sofa lol
Afm having a really down day I am crying at everything I am in the oddest mood an I am trying to talk to my husband about what to do for Elliott's birthday an he just said you deal with it its what you do isn't it so he is obviously in the same mood as me so I have given up an I am laying in bed alone sobbing cause its all I can think to do!! How stupid is that x I really need to snap out of it or I will end up in a pit
Love you all by the way xx

 

[bazzb]

Aww Naoimi don't cry sweetie
You have every right to be upset
Here for you Alaway
Much love xo

 

[mackjess]

so sorry Naomi. most of the time life is easier cause dh doesn't have a lot of opinions or input into stuff, but I really hate it when I need that help mentally for someone to make a decision or come up with ideas, and he won't. maybe your good cry well make you feel better it clear your head so you think of something.

 

[Dollybird]

Thanks ladies. It's nice to know I'm not the only one feeling this way. I'm prob being a bit over sensitive about it all really but can't seem to help myself.
Aw Naomi so sorry u feel so sad. Guys just aren't as good as us ladies at communicating when it comes to difficult things so try not to take it personally.. He's obviously just hurting too and it's his way of coping with it. Hope u are ok.. Lots of Hugs
Well I guess ill be Tara today and ask the question ... How are all these lovely bumps coming along?! Hehe. Must be getting big now?? I feel huge!! Little man has been a very active wee lad past few days its been amazing to watch him kicking away- it's like something out of "alien" lol . 27 weeks today!! Congrats to us jess! Officially in third tri.. Can u believe it?? Can't believe we've come so far xxx

 

[bazzb]

Happy 27 weeks ladies xx

 

[mtln777]

Oh Naomi ~ my heart aches for u....... I can't imagine what u r going thru....I have been weepy as well not sure why???? I want you to know that know matter what I'm doing everyday I am always thinking of you.... always and forever xoxoxoxoxoxo Tara

Yeah for the 3rd trimester Girlies time for some bump pix and Jenna stole the words right from my mouth.....lol

Sophia~ I don't think you said what ur heartbeat was sounding like??? LOVE TEAM YELLOW xoxoxoxoxo

Amanda how r u? Haven't seen u posting!!! Hope all is well.......

AFM~ I don't know I am just sooooooooo blah, been rough over here....Mike and I haven't seen eachother and I feel like were at odds....I HATE NIGHTS,,,,,This is a HUGE problem everytime he is on them. it really puts a strain on r relationship.....UG I'm so annoyed and really just want a BFP but NO bding means NO BFP!!!!! Wish we could do it r selves Hope everyone has a good day lots of love and Tara

 

[MommyNikki]

I'm sorry Naomi for going through such a hard time.

Happy 27 weeks to those of you who are there!

 

[MommyNikki]

Tara my mike has been gone a lot lately too and it's got me pretty stressed out. Hopefully it changes for both of us cause I know it puts a lot of strain on a relationship when you feel lonely or in need of attention.

 

[mtln777]

Tara my mike has been gone a lot lately too and it's got me pretty stressed out. Hopefully it changes for both of us cause I know it puts a lot of strain on a relationship when you feel lonely or in need of attention.

I DO and IT SURE DOES!!!!! I was so aggravated last night because I work mon weds and fri from 9-6 then I call him on my way home and the kids are fighting he's short with them and I'm like JESUS I don't even want to come home!!! Then his friend comes over when I do get an hour to spend with him......By the time he wants to hang out I'm ready for bed! Ug something needs to change cuz I am not getting prego myself lol.....I am going to start OPK's in am and hope I didn't miss Oing. I haven't had any CM so I am sure I am still safe.....PLEASE SAY A PRAYER FOR ME xoxoxoxoxoxox Tara How are u feeling otherwise Nikki? Chasing rugrats and being pregnant! betcha tired comes to mind

 

[MommyNikki]

Kids tire me out fast. It makes me more sure of getting my tubes tied after this one. Being pregnant doesn't help my patience either and mike usually does something to set off the bomb lol. I'm trying to enjoy my pregnancy but as the weather gets nicer it's more evident that I'm going to spend another summer being hot and huge and tired and unable to do the fun stuff. 10 months is just such a long time lol. My job is going good but that's too freaking long too...lol I remember now why I wasn't working. I have some shorter shifts this week so maybe my legs won't fall off

 

[bazzb]

Nikki what is your edd?

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

Naomi- I'm so sorry that hubby is putting it all on you! I'm kinda sure that John would do that to...he has no party planning ability! Lol!

Congrats to you 3rd trimesters! Woohoo, you guys are so close to meeting your babies!

AFM- I've been keeping up with posts, but been to busy to post! I have a funny Mikey story to share. We have been putting him on timeout if he doesn't listen to us or does something he isn't supposed to. So yesterday, he started putting himself in time out if he doesn't want to do something I ask him to do!

It is so cold again today, I can't stand it! Yesterday I was wearing capris and a short sleeved shirt, but today I am in jeans and a sweater with a coat and gloves outside! I'm tired of this roller coaster weather! Just get warm already! (I might regret that statement when it's 100 degrees and I'm huge and miserable!)

Anyways, here is my new bump pic...I don't quite understand the grapefruit, because the papaya was definitly bigger last week...

 

[MommyNikki]

Bailey it's supposed to be aug 3 but Friday July 26 or Monday July 29th will probably be the exact day cause I will have to have a c section and I know they don't do them on the weekends and its always about 39 weeks so they don't risk me going into labor before hand and needing a emergency c section

 

[bazzb]

ohhhh okay
thats not too far away
did you have a section with your other two?

amanda cute pic you are adorable!! xx


afm i had my app today.... my thyroid is functioning normal now yaya just gotta keep on my meds and to go to the dr once i get preggo to have my dose upped.. also my prolactin is now in normal from from 30 down to 12 who hoo
she aid there are no hormonal reason as to why i should not ovulate properly, all of my hormones are normal... and that sometimes it can take up to 6 weeks from starting the thyroid meds to really regulate cycles.. so im going to kinda kick back and not panic yet... (seriously) lol

oh and hubby ordered me 40 cheap opk from amazon today and i think they come with 10 cheapie preggy test i was very excited

 

[MommyNikki]

Bailey I did have c sections with my others. That's great news you got today...I'm so happy that they seemed to have leveled everything out for you. Hopefully a baby is right around the corner. It seems like u have a real good guy by your side too, I'm jealous