BD'ing my butt off--whose in it for November??

[Womble12]

Hey all, sorry been so quiet, I've been reading but not posting, but love hearing all your news.

Pregnant ladies sounds like its getting hard work in the last couple weeks. But you're sooo close now!! Great bump pics

Bailey, glad to hear you've had some serious testing done, you are going to be next!

Tara your trip sounded fab!

Still no Naomi anywhere, but maybe she's like me, reading but not writing?

I'm fine, 33 weeks, am same as you Amanda pretty much. Pregnancy wise I feel great, prob best I've felt the whole time. Am even sleeping well, & on my front, I dunno how. Having MAJOR stress over moving house hence been preoccupied. Sale of my flat looking like its fallen thru so means can't buy house and will be stuck in 1 bed flat not near my friends and family when baby comes, v v depressed about it. But its out of our hands. Say a little prayer for me girls, I need every bit of help out there! If we don't move we won't get as good a mortgage once I'm on maternity leave so basically it'll be a bad situation! Anyway, trying to stay positive for baby! Am still working but as I'm so preoccupied with house stuff, it doesn't bother me!

I'll try and write more often, but am looking forward to the first baby arriving, could be any day now!!!

Look after yourselves, Sophie xx

 

[Dollybird]

Aw Sophie I'm so sorry to hear about your flat that must've been a real blow. I remember how pleased u where when it sold. Lets all pray another buyer appears. Glad you're well otherwise though. Quite jealous that you're sleeping on your front! Lol. And sleeping well!! Don't think I'm gonna sleep well for a longggggg time now lol.
Amanda lovely bump piccy!
Afm.. Shattered! Went out for a meal last night with my friends but was in agony by the end of it because I my pelvis. Dunno why but u had this mad feeling something was gonna happen last night.. Just didn't feel right. I even got out a pad to lie on incase my waters went in bed. But Nope.. Bubs must've changed his mind! xxx

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

Sophie- I'm so sorry the sale fell through, that's so disappointing! Try not to stress to much, it's not good on you or baby!

Jenna- it's not going to be much longer!

AFM- I had the most wonderful per-natal massage yesterday! I had never had a massage before, so it was quite a special treat!

Happy Independance Day to all you ladies in the US! We are going take Mikey to see his first fireworks tonight, so hopefully he isn't scared! Last year we were in Colorado for the 4th, and they had a firework ban because of all the wildfires.

 

[MommyNikki]

Happy 4th ladies. Made most of the food last night (paying for it today with soreness) going to see the fireworks later!

 

[MommyNikki]

Just stopping in to say hi since everyone seems to be MIA. Not much new here other than things being shitty at home. What's new. Can't wait for little dude to come out so I can get back to normal. Hope all is well with every one!!!

 

[Dollybird]

Aw nikki sorry things are rubbish. Is it just the probs with the spd? Or is mike being a pain again?
I'm much the same too, although I feel like I'm getting sorer and more uncomfortable as each day goes by! Have resigned myself to the fact that he'll prob be overdue, cause I was driving myself mad analysing every single twinge. It's hard though when you're so uncomfy to try and "enjoy" this waiting period. Xxx

 

[bazzb]

Sorry you ladies are so uncomfortable I hope
Both little guys make an appearance soon ! Xx

Nikki what's bothering you love? Is it mike again? I hope
Not

 

[MommyNikki]

Yea it's mike again, says he plans on leaving when he gets his school refund money. My moms a bitch just causes so many problems in my life and he sides with her over me, he'll side with anyone over me. It seems like most of the time he's more of an enemy to me than a friend. I can't believe that someone loves you if they are always threatening to leave you or always acting like your a bother. Idk what I'm trying to hold on to

 

[bazzb]

Your OH shouldn't treat you like that
It isn't normal and it isn't right

Your bit not a bother your a pregnant mother of his kids and he needs a good punch in the friggen face
Xox to you hunny

 

[Dollybird]

Aw Nikki I'm so sorry to hear that. Tbh I think you would be better off without him -u deserve a man that will treat u with some respect, and kindness, and love. His behaviour is totally unacceptable and actually very cruel.. Not the way someone who loves you should ever treat you. I understand why you want to hold on though, it's hard to leave someone u love no matter how badly they treat u cause there's always the hope that they will change eventually. It's so easy for people on th outside to tell you how they think it is and advise you wat to do but I know it isn't always that easy. Hope you ok and staying strong chick.. Don't let him bring u down xxx

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

Oh Nikki, I am so sorry! He should not be treating you like that! Stay strong girl!

Jenna- I hope you feel better! I'm uncomfortable part of the time too, it just comes with the territory of being so close!

AFM- Mikey loved the fireworks on the 4th! He wore a pair of noise canceling headphones so it wasn't so loud.

Mikey and I stayed with my parents this weekend so John could paint. The babies room is done, so now I can get to shopping and organizing! He painted Mikey's room too, but we are still waiting for the checkered flag border and the giant Cars appliqués, they are supposed to be delivered today! I can't wait till its all done! He has a car bed and Cars themed bedding, so that's what we are doing his whole room as!

 

[MommyNikki]

Hey guys...just thought if write as I'm laying in bed...alone. I've been so depressed. It sucks that this will be my last pregnancy and I just knew it was going to be such a happy time for me and it just isn't. Mike is still talking to me not that I am doing much talking back since I'm still hurt that he still is considering leaving. I've dealt with a lack of a love life but now it seems non-existent and I'm living with someone I love and can't even kiss. I can't tell you what a toll everything has taken on me emotionally. I feel really alone. I know this isn't pregnancy related so I hope it's okay to post this here..I don't have many places to go.

 

[Dollybird]

Aw nikki of course it is. It breaks my heart that he's treating you this way. I know how it feels to be in the situation - before I met my hubby I was with someone just like that and I remember how it felt just like if was yesterday.. That horrible sick feeling in the pit of your stomach, the hope that things will change, the loneliness. I hardly ate. And that was all without having a pregnancy or kiddies involved so must be ten times worse for u. Wish I could come and give u a hug. Stay strong Hun.. xxx

 

[Dollybird]

I'm the queen of quotes. Lol. But it's true. I know it's hard now but it won't be forever. And remember - life is too short to be with someone who takes the joy out of it. U deserve better xxx

 

[MommyNikki]

Love it. Thank you

 

[mackjess]

Good quote, and I agree with Dolly. I've been in a very bad relationship like that myself, and it's so hard when you are in it to see a way out. Stay strong, you will get there and one day you will look back on it with an appreciation for the stronger girl it made you.

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

I'm so sorry Nikki! I can only imagine how hard that is. I can't relate since I never been in any other relationship except for my hubby. Stay strong girl! I will be praying for you!

 

[MommyNikki]

Thanks girls, to tonight things seem to be getting better and looking like they will turn around. As for my pregnancy, my acid reflux is giving my medicine a run for its money right now...I was actually getting used to not choking on stomach acid anymore but I think I may need something a little stronger now. I watched some baby show today and I honestly forgot how little and adorable newborns are lol I'm so used to my kids being my "babies" but they are like giants compared to newborns. Also, if you can't tell by my posting times, I'm suffering from insomnia...anyone else? I used to go to bed like 10-11 every night and now it's like 2 am before I go to sleep...still wake up early to get kids to school and then maybe take a 1-2 nap during the day. I think my body is telling me to get ready for no sleep lol. Also I asked before if anyone else started leaking milk yet but no one answered. I'm hoping it means ill go into labor soon (wishful thinking).

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

Nikki- That's great that things are getting better! I'm sorry about the insomnia. I'm still sleeping fairly good, besides the waking up all the time to pee! Do your kids go to school year round? I haven't started leaking milk yet, I never did with Mikey until after he was born.

AFM- I had a doctor appt yesterday, and now I start going every week...yikes! I can't believe I am so close! We got the registry shopping done, now I'm working on getting the baby's room set up and organized. I need to get my hospital bag somewhat packed too! I'm only 5 weeks away, so it could happen anytime!

We still haven't decided on a name. John likes Wesley, which was his grandpas middle name. I don't know that I like it as a first name, but it would be ok as a middle name. I thought Gabriel Wesley sounded pretty good. We also like Gabriel Luke. Hopefully we can decide on one soon!

 

[bazzb]

I like Gabriel Amanda!

Ladies i think I may have ovulated
I didn't say anything earlier as i though FF might take it away or something
Looks like I dud in cd 14

Ill attach my chart