Be careful what you wish for!

[jessmke]

I had a total emotional moment the other night! I was really sick in the first tri and didn't want my hubby to cuddle me much. So it's been three months now of no touching in bed, sitting on opposite sides of the couch, etc. the other night I had a complete meltdown and threatened to move into the spare room because there was 'no affection left in our relationship anymore'. The poor guy was totally blindsided, and said he thought I wanted space, and was trying not to smother me, and was trying so hard in bed to leave me alone because he knows how tired I am and he wants me to get lots of rest. He promised to 'do better', and now I'm getting all the cuddles and hugs that I used to. Well, I am so uncomfortable when he cuddles me! I either feel nauseous or hot or I can't breathe, but I made such an emotional scene over the whole thing and made him feel so bad, I can't tell him to back off! I guess I'll just have to let my hubby cuddle me, haha, poor me!

 

[tallybee]

Aww xx just say how you're feeling hun xx he can't know if you don't say x

 

[Eleanor ace]

Aw bless him, what a sweetheart! I'd be honest, just say you had a hormonal meltdown and that you understand and appreciate him respecting you not wanting to be touched, and that you really appreciate him giving you lot of cuddles now, but that you are constantly swinging between wanting to be touched and not, so you'll let him know when you want it from now on s he's not left guessing