Hi ladies, hows everyone doing, I have been ok but had a really rubbish midwife appointment tuesday and she made me feel awful. It wasnt my usual one, she was in a rush anyway and I was in there about 5 mins, she tested my urine, which has still blood in it after 4 weeks and antibiotics, just told me to go to the hospital if i start bleeding as I have had no bleeding, its just in my wee. She didnt reasure me whats so ever and refused to check baby's heart beat as said to early, I was 16+6 weeks and lucky I have my own doppler as I have been able to get the heart beat from 11 weeks. I should have said something to her but after all the stuff about the blood still, I froze, it just reminded me of my mmc last year all over again. I came home thinking ok, this baby isnt going to make it. Just awful. I do have my gender scan on monday, so I am hoping things are ok.