Lirpa11
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When can we consider DTD after giving birth?
I had a first degree tear at the bottom of my opening and it had stitches. I then had two tears on my labia and opted for no stitches . The side tears have healed as far as I can see, I can still see my stitches at the bottom of my vaginal opening though. I tried looking at the area yesterday but seemed to just stir it up and made it bleed lightly, so I don't think it's ready for intercourse yet.
I've read 2 weeks, 4 weeks, 6 weeks, and just when you are ready. Just wondering how you ladies went? I'm scared of ripping the area again although it's been four weeks Friday. Isn't that long enough?
Also is it best to use a condom, or without a condom? Or does it matter? I heard infection can happen so I want to avoid that...
Thanks
I had a first degree tear at the bottom of my opening and it had stitches. I then had two tears on my labia and opted for no stitches . The side tears have healed as far as I can see, I can still see my stitches at the bottom of my vaginal opening though. I tried looking at the area yesterday but seemed to just stir it up and made it bleed lightly, so I don't think it's ready for intercourse yet.
I've read 2 weeks, 4 weeks, 6 weeks, and just when you are ready. Just wondering how you ladies went? I'm scared of ripping the area again although it's been four weeks Friday. Isn't that long enough?
Also is it best to use a condom, or without a condom? Or does it matter? I heard infection can happen so I want to avoid that...
Thanks