FlatShoes
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Hi ladies.
I found out last week I am pregnant with my second child - happened very quickly, I had my coil removed on the 9th September and did a test last week when I still hadnt had a period - pregnant!
So onto my concern. My brother and his girlfriend had go to 22 weeks with their first child and she went into early labour and they lost the baby. A beautiful boy named Ben.
She would have been due around Christmas - by which time I will be about 12 weeks and ready to announce.
I really dont want to upset them and think it would be insensitive to announce then. So do I tell her earlier in person? Or do I wait until after the New Year to tell them?
I ahve already told my parents and asked them not to say anything.
Any advice would be vey helpful.
I found out last week I am pregnant with my second child - happened very quickly, I had my coil removed on the 9th September and did a test last week when I still hadnt had a period - pregnant!
So onto my concern. My brother and his girlfriend had go to 22 weeks with their first child and she went into early labour and they lost the baby. A beautiful boy named Ben.
She would have been due around Christmas - by which time I will be about 12 weeks and ready to announce.
I really dont want to upset them and think it would be insensitive to announce then. So do I tell her earlier in person? Or do I wait until after the New Year to tell them?
I ahve already told my parents and asked them not to say anything.
Any advice would be vey helpful.