kerri28
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I know everyone views their own problems from their own perspective of things but shouldn't people also imagine themselves in the other persons shoes or realize their problems are minor compared to another's? I practice that when in complaining even now I know what I'm complaining about is nothing compared to other ladies problems on here and vice versa. But we vent regardless because it is a release. Let's face it we are kinda restricted these days to relaxation methods lol.
So as I have mentioned briefly before my best friend is very young and is in a relationship with a man who will no longer marry her because she wants kids and he doesn't but she is very codependent so she has yet to leave him. She very much wants children but he has been trying to sway her and somewhat succeeding. Now that I'm pregnant she has been getting very distant some days and makes remarks like well atleast your pregnant! Well here's the thing I'd expect that from someone who has been unable to conceive and tried and tried but she isn't planning on having children any time soon and especially with this guy. When I say I've been sick all day and I'm going to bed early (10pm)! She calls me after midnight complaining I never have time to talk to her because I go to bed early!! Her bf doesn't let her call me till he leaves. She has no responsibilities, lives at home, just started working her first full time job and has no real life worries outside of her relationship. I hate that she treats me like what I'm going through is nothing yet she is jealous of it!! Being on bed rest is nothing to be jealous of and going day to day not knowing what's going on in there isn't wonderful either! I sent her a picture of the chair dh ordered yesterday as a surprise for the nursery and all she could say is oh must be comfy but why would you get it now??
I can't deal with petty crap. She's 25 and claims she's going to have to start her life all over if age leaves her bf of 2 years. She talks and acts like ages 40 and going through a divorce with grown children!! In growing a human being inside my body. I just feel like this pregnancy is nothing to everyone except me and dh. We haven't told family yet but I get the sense it won't be any different to them either.
Sorry this is so long I'm just so frustrated.
So as I have mentioned briefly before my best friend is very young and is in a relationship with a man who will no longer marry her because she wants kids and he doesn't but she is very codependent so she has yet to leave him. She very much wants children but he has been trying to sway her and somewhat succeeding. Now that I'm pregnant she has been getting very distant some days and makes remarks like well atleast your pregnant! Well here's the thing I'd expect that from someone who has been unable to conceive and tried and tried but she isn't planning on having children any time soon and especially with this guy. When I say I've been sick all day and I'm going to bed early (10pm)! She calls me after midnight complaining I never have time to talk to her because I go to bed early!! Her bf doesn't let her call me till he leaves. She has no responsibilities, lives at home, just started working her first full time job and has no real life worries outside of her relationship. I hate that she treats me like what I'm going through is nothing yet she is jealous of it!! Being on bed rest is nothing to be jealous of and going day to day not knowing what's going on in there isn't wonderful either! I sent her a picture of the chair dh ordered yesterday as a surprise for the nursery and all she could say is oh must be comfy but why would you get it now??
I can't deal with petty crap. She's 25 and claims she's going to have to start her life all over if age leaves her bf of 2 years. She talks and acts like ages 40 and going through a divorce with grown children!! In growing a human being inside my body. I just feel like this pregnancy is nothing to everyone except me and dh. We haven't told family yet but I get the sense it won't be any different to them either.
Sorry this is so long I'm just so frustrated.