Am I wrong to take this as complete ignorance!!! I felt so hurt when someone said this to me today, its not like I lost on the lottery or a raffel, my baby boy has died!!!! I was so hurt!! xxx
oh hunni how horrid and insensitive for someone to say such a thing! ffs! makes me so angry! we dont want a next time all we want is our babies back and we cant. its like your son meant nothing.
You will find you will get alot more comments like this over time babe and each and every one of them will hurt. People just dont know what to say and end up saying the wrong thing...but they think its "ok" iykwim?!
The most common one I get is "it wont happen again" How the fook do they know?! It wasnt meant to happen the 1st fuking time
Im so sorry babe! I am always here if you want to talk
Donna xxx
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That is awful... Ive had that said to me too... 1 i get told was "you'll be fine, it was for the best" literally 30 mins after i found out i had m/c... to me it was still my baby and he still died even though i never got to meet him properly
What a awful thing to say ....I found people was sayying least u know u can carry a healthy baby as you,ve had Jake some people arnt that lucky ...which maybe true but still doesnt make the pain or the emptiness go away
Oh bless you hun I know how your feeling as I have just had my fourth m/c and my mum came down the same day that I had been to the EPU and was told I was losing the baby and she said something similar her words were "well its for the best, you can always try again in a few months time. Have a rest now as its probably natures way of telling you to be happy with what you have got". I was gutted it was like a rubbing salt into the wound. Nothing can ever replace the feeling of loss that you feel and I think unless you have suffered a loss its so hard for anyone to really understand how empty the feeling is. Sending you big hugs xx
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