Beyond Devastated!

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  1. PinkSugar77

    PinkSugar77 Member

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    I am new on the boards and just started TTC again...but I had the worst night of my life..... I started my af at 4 am with the worst cramps!!
    I was in my TWW as me and my SO were trying again, we have been pregnant in the past few times, but no bring home baby yet. :(
    Well during the summer we split up, we have been together for 9 yrs. Well I found out during that time, he had seen someone else. Ok so I now know she is 23 yrs old I am 34, and SHE IS PREGNANT 4 MONTHS BY MY SO!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM BEYOND DEVASTATED!! :cry::cry::cry: I have no idea what to do with myself! I am sorry ladies I did not know where else to vent this! :(
     
  2. television

    television Well-Known Member

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    Really sorry to hear that what a horrible situation to be in im so so sorry:hugs:
     
  3. hatbox

    hatbox Well-Known Member

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    How awful. This must be really hard. :hugs:
     
  4. JaniceT

    JaniceT Mum to a gorgeous boy.

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    I'm so sorry he hurt you so much! (((hugs))) what I can say is, YOU DESERVE BETTER. It is difficult to move on because you have gotten used to him in yor life for 9 years. However, it is better you know now than later.
     
  5. foxykins

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    so he had a affair then u guys got back together and u just found out she is preggers? is that right
     
  6. PinkSugar77

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    Thank You ladies..I really have no idea what to do with myself!
    While we were split up he slept with this girl..and yes I knew he had after we got back together. Then just last night found out she is 4 months pregnant. She got pregnant the first time they did it, they said the condom broke. ugh omg...............
    I am 34 have been through hell trying to have a baby now thought things were gonna be fine and now this. My 9 yr relationship is now over and I also feel now I will never have a child!
     
  7. momwannabe81

    momwannabe81 Well-Known Member

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    I'm sorry hun we are here for u
     
  8. littlebabyboy

    littlebabyboy Well-Known Member

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    sorry to hear this. :(
     
  9. bump.on.brain

    bump.on.brain Well-Known Member

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    I am so so sorry to hear what you are going through, and I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling.

    I wish there was something more that I could say, but I just hope that somehow you manage to find a way through this situation and are ok.

    So so sorry. :hugs:
     
  10. CanadianMaple

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    What a nightmare. I'm so, so sorry.
     

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