BF cheating..raising the baby on my own

[Kris0309]

I was being nosey cause my bofriend was acting strange sometimes so i know his email password and saw some things from a website and its a gay/bi website ( i have nothing wrong with ppl who are gay i just dont want to be with one) So I saw that he was talking to these guys about meeting up and ya you can imagine what was said from there. So i erased his profile which can only be done once a week and wrote if he keeps messing with ppl he can stay out of my life and our babys. . btw I am 19 and 10 weeks pregnant and he is 22. And he texted me last night saying he isnt gay. and i never came out and told him he was, so the only way he would know that is if he went on that websiteand saw his profile which of course he did but he still denies it and continues to msg guys about getting together. he could get an std and put me and my baby at risk. Im scarred and dont want to raise this baby on my own but i cant handle this. my mom doesnt know im pregnant yet and i feel like i have noone if i leave him . i dont know what to do. I dontwant to be a single mom

 

[kiwimama]

Your bf might be gay, he might not. If you are feeling like you have to be checking what he is doing, then there is no trust in your relationship and relationships can't work without it. Don't stay with him just because you are scared. There are plenty of single mums doing it on there own who raise beautiful babies. Tell your mum as soon as possible - she is your mother and loves you and will support you. You need support at this time. Good luck!

 

[mrsdcooper]

women are amazing, you will cope and you will do better than cope. you need to talk to your mum, sounds like your gonna need her.

i would make a decision now and stick by it, baby needs all your strength. we cant make the decision for you but as said no trust will only bring more and more problems. if he is unsure about who he is then he also needs the space to discover, otherwise he will never be truely happy and niether will you. it may turn out that he is gay, or maybe he just needed to know for sure...

hope all works out for you and we are all here when you need us

 

[trishk]

Oh sweetie all i dont know what to say to you apart from you should tell your mam straight away! You are going to need her support whatever you decide about your relationship!

 

[Blob]

You def should speak to your mum, you are going to need her support more than ever

 

[trishk]

Oh sweetie all i dont know what to say to you apart from you should tell your mam straight away! You are going to need her support whatever you decide about your relationship!