BFers, do you?

[Mervs Mum]

I agree Ryder but I'm just saying its hard when its you in that position. I'm not suggesting that Toria has low self esteem but some people do and when it's pointed out to you that you're not doing what everyone else thinks is obviously the solution, then that can compound an already crappy situation you find yourself in.....I'm just a bit soft maybe coz I've been there.

 

[ryder]

Yep... I just dont think his attitude is OK at all... Not for Toria, not for Caitlin.

Ive been in a very abusive relationship before, thank god no baby was involved so it was much easier for me to leave im sure.

 

[dannyboygirl]

Toria You have to do what's best for your baby..You're a Mom now..The only person you need to plz is your baby girl..Its a tough decision well these are tough decisions but you will come out a stronger person after..Don't settle for less when you deserve the best..Don't put up wit S*** or the only thing in life people will give you is S***...For real girl..We all care thats why we all are putting in our opinion...Key word OPINION..Its hard being a woman n if you are a single mother its harder..But your baby will know mommy loves me and mommy respects herself enough to not deal with what everyone expects of her...But does what's best for her and her baby..As a mother to a baby girl you want your daughter to feel loved and secure and to love herself and to respect herself..Just a lil pep talk

 

[Serene123]

Sooooooooooooooo, it wasn't THAT bad. Tollerable anyway. Then when we got home Caitlyn was a NIGHTMARE as per usual and I feel rubbish! But yeah, I'll live.

 

[sam's mum]

Glad it wasn't too bad. Hope Caitlyn's back to her normal smiley self for Christmas x

 

[Mervs Mum]

You survived!

 

[Novbaby08]

yay! Were they nice to you? Was Rich nice to you? Glad you came back in one piece!

 

[ryder]

glad to hear it went ok!

 

[Serene123]

Yeah they were nice, and fake You know when you can just tell someone wishes you weren't in the room? Didn't bother me though tbh, I had some time on my own whilst they were holding her and it kept them happy

 

[Novbaby08]

thats good, fake or not they behaved themselves, some people are so ********

 

[hsollis]

I'm glad you survived!

In reading through the thread and the fact that, everyone was nice even though seemed 'fake', I have to ask since you said that they've always disliked you but you couldn't figure out why and given the comments about Caitlin's dad stating he didn't want you to keep her in the first place:

Could HE be the root problem? Is it possible he gave his family wrong impressions about you and continues to?

Maybe you should check into that if the oppotunity comes up.