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[Wish2BMom]

wicky - thank you for the update! great news you had such a good scan. I love when you can start to tell it's truly a BABY in there! I just looked at my 9w scan and swooned all over the place I'm just so happy for you and DW. That's awesome you have a coworker to confide in too!! I slipped a few times but those that I told didn't tell each other, so everything was cool. I think by the time I "could" tell, I had told most people individually. I'm terrible.

miki - Oh I bet you do miss Singapore! Sounds like you guys had a really fun life there. That's awesome! Perhaps you have some swelling, I wouldn't be surprised b/c it seems par for the course. But things are just achy too, I think. With the progesterone and relaxin causing muscles to soften and stretch, it's taking more of a toll to move around.

terri - have fun this weekend! I'll show you mine if you show us yours!

ask - your pup does sound like our Sophie a bit poor things. I'm absolutely baffled at how anyone can abuse an animal. Takes a certain kind of evil.

not much going on here - working from home today so I can put my feet up. DH is too and we're heading to a concert tonight - Fallout Boy. Hopefully it's good. It was one of those 'hmm - I bet they'd be a good concert' but we're not big fans of them or anything. Just seem to have good songs on the radio. Jaden Smith is opening for them... I didn't even know he was a recording artist. Perhaps we'll stay at the restaurant or bar a few mins longer and skip that part!

 

[TTC74]

Called my OB. She’s giving me progesterone to begin at the first whiff of a bfp.

 

[Ask4joy]

TTC - I’ve read that starting progesterone after a bfp can sometimes be too late...are you able to start it after ovulation? When I was going progesterone suppositories after my CPs my RE had me start 4 days after ovulation. Unfortunately I had another CP even on progesterone so it was an embryo quality issue for me. It did stop my premature spotting though!

 

[TTC74]

TTC - I’ve read that starting progesterone after a bfp can sometimes be too late...are you able to start it after ovulation? When I was going progesterone suppositories after my CPs my RE had me start 4 days after ovulation. Unfortunately I had another CP even on progesterone so it was an embryo quality issue for me. It did stop my premature spotting though!

I’ll probably start the progesterone around 4-6 DPO just to play it safe.

 

[terripeachy]

The party was really fun. I was dancing machine. I got mad at the main Ravens player because he was being a total jerk. He was supposed to come out and say some words of thanks and then the dance party was to begin. I told the DJ to start the dance party because he was taking too long to come out. People paid good money to dance and have fun and if the guy we were celebrating couldn't show his face, who needs him? The player finally came out at 10:10 (the party ended at 10) and of course everyone wanted their picture with him. I yelled out 'what about me?!' he said some words, as if to say I was rude, but then I just said 'well, can we get a picture?' he said ok. Ugh. I didn't really want a picture anyway but I was drinking and loud. Hee hee. Whatever. I tried uploading a picture of my outfit but I don't have the patience right now to wait for it.

I spoke to another player when he was standing alone and just told him to keep up the good work. I'm really not starstruck. They are normal people but when everyone puts them on a pedestal, they get bad attitudes and I don't like that. Oh, and with my heels I was taller than both players I talked to. I'm only 5'6, so that was comical. I'll try to load a pic later.

 

[mikihope]

Wish- How was Fallout Boy (and Jaden Smith!)? Concerts are so much fun, I bet you enjoyed yourself! We used to go for concerts quite a bit in Singapore. Yeah, I miss the fun we had back there. I had circles of friends from playing basketball and cycling and triathlon. The main circle of friends I had all were regulars at a pub, and the owner became our friend too. We had so much silly fun together. After he closed the pub, we still hung out in each others’ houses, went to watch rugby and Formula 1, etc. But… other than having family and friends there, I actually really couldn’t stand being in Singapore! I couldn’t stand the hot tropical weather, the mindset of people back home, the work culture, the idiotic drivers, etc. So really, the only thing I really miss is the social life, oh.. and the food. I love my life here in the Bay Area, and spending time walking outdoors.
I think you’re right, I examined my ankles and I realized that I have less definition. I didn’t notice the swelling until I read about yours! And I feel twinges around my pelvis when getting up or moving around sometimes. Moving around definitely is getting more challenging.

Terri- I’m glad you had fun at the party, despite the jerky behaviour of the main Ravens player. Wow, how high were your heels?

TTC- I hope the progesterone does the trick!

Ask and Wish- My last doggie was a rescue, and she showed signs of neglect and abuse too She was such a sweetheart. Sigh, I can't understand how people can abuse animals either. Your pups are very lucky to have you in their lives!

I met the perinatal nurse and the nutritionist yesterday. I was relieved to hear that I could still eat carbs (only juice is a no-no), I just have to control the portions. Although…That is really difficult as I am new to this, and it seems like a full time job at the moment! I have to get used to eating 6 smaller meals a day, and I also have to get used to doing the 4 finger pricks a day. I like that exercise is encouraged, but it’s tough for me to make sure to walk after meals. I will get a call from the perinatal office once a week, so that I can give them my readings for the week. It’s really stressful for me right now to try to keep my readings down to acceptable levels. I’m supposed to take readings 1 hour after the first bite. Sadly, I was 4 points over acceptable for lunch, 2 points over for dinner and exactly at the maximum acceptable for breakfast. It’s such a tense moment before the reading pops up on the monitor! My fasting blood sugar was fine. I ate out for both lunch and dinner yesterday and didn’t walk after, so it’s possible that I’ll get better numbers from now on. I tried to be very careful about what I ate, but I’m still learning! I already cut down and restricted so much for my pregnancy before my GD diagnosis, I wonder if I’m going to succeed in keeping my blood sugar low enough to not need medication…

 

[terripeachy]

Miki-i didn't think the heels were that high but I just looked online and it says 4 inches. Hee hee. They are Sofft brand Mary Janes. I believe the style is called Monique. They are super cute and they have this really nice padding inside so they didn't hurt my feet at all. I think I'm going to wear them to church tomorrow.

Glad you met with your doctors and they are monitoring you frequently. It's ok if you're a little off with your readings. Like you said, your still learning. I bet by the time you figure it out gummy will be here! Yeah.

 

[mikihope]

Terri- Wow, 4 inch heels plus you were dancing away! The shoes do sound super cute. Still waiting for your pics... I don't/can't wear heels as I'm not used to them (how on earth do you dance with them on?), but I'm always envious of how nice heels look.

Thanks for your support, I'm learning indeed. I feel like I'm taking a crash course on super healthy eating, and I'm cramming for the exam. There's barely any time, gummy's almost here! I hope he's happy and healthy

 

[Wish2BMom]

terri - so glad you had fun!! I get a little starstruck but when it comes to actually meeting the person, I treat them as a regular old person. Like I'd LOOOVE to meet Gronk and I'd be nervous but once I calmed down, I'd want to actually talk about football, his injuries or whatnot. And I can't stand the idea of an autograph - who cares about someone's signature! So glad you had such a great time - sounds like so much fun. And I believe the height difference! That would be like me meeting Edelman!! I would TOWER over him!

miki - sounds like you are meeting the challenge of changing your habits with gusto - great job!! I'm sure you'll get the hang of it quickly enough. Gummy will be just fine. Speaking of 'gummy', I can't remember if you guys figured out a name yet? Not asking you to share, just wondering if you've covered that challenge yet? Your life in Singapore sounds like it was awesome. I do believe you though that your life now in the Bay area is probably just as awesome, but in a different way!

TTC - I was immediately wondering the same thing as Ask - whenever I've taken progesterone, granted it was for a fully medicated cycle so it was all 'fake', I started it right after trigger/"ovulation", b/c that's when the body is supposed to start creating it.

How's everyone else doing?

We had a busy busy weekend again - concert on Friday. Fall Out Boy was great, we skipped Jaden Smith but got duped into a 2nd opener - "blackbear". Holy hell, I literally said 'I don't know what is happening right now...' - he was AWFUL. He looked like Beiber from afar, walked around, expected everyone to be freaking out over him, actually ASKED why so many people were still sitting down, used the F word far too frequently (for the crowd that had a ton of kids in it too), and at one point, got down on one knee to pose for a pic and had to tell the crowd on either side of the catwalk to throw their arms up for the pic and then said 'that was for my Instagram'. So basically had to fake a pic that looked like the crowd was into him. What a loser. His Dad must be high up in the biz and made FOB put him on the ticket or something.
Our Halloween party on Saturday was fun, though - the costumes were so great to see. Everyone liked mine and I even met someone new who is giving us our 2nd crib!!! So we don't have to buy either one (I have a friend giving us hers too)!! SCORE! They don't match whatsoever but who cares - one is brown, the other is white. It might bother me a little b/c I like for things to be in order but oh well. Free is free.
Then yesterday was just football day! And last night we had a storm with the force of a nor'easter (almost category 1 hurricane winds) and lost power. So I'm a bit out of sorts today - have to shower here at work, came in late b/c I wanted to work from home but then realized no power = no internet. Sheesh.

no updates on babies but they are moving and shaking so much - I'm actually getting sore. Today marks the last week of my 2nd tri! CRAZY.

Sorry for the book!! hope everyone is well!

 

[yushirley]

Hello, I am new here. My DH (40) and I (37) are TTC for over 2 years, did 4 IUI all failed. I stopped going to the clinic since May this year, too depressed after my 4th failed IUI.
My last period started on 9/22 and my cycle is usually 26 ~ 28 days, I usually O between CD11 ~ CD15. I was away for a week in early Oct so I didn't track my O with OPK this cycle. Now I am on CD39, no AF, 3 BFN. I checked my BBT yesterday and today both 98.0, but I haven't tracked my BBT since May so I don't think this means much.
I am very confused and frustrated, should I keep waiting until I get my AF or BFP?

 

[Wish2BMom]

Hi yu - welcome!

first off, I'm sorry about your challenges so far. This TTC stuff is not easy sometimes!! Keep your chin up, though - there are many, many additional ways you can get your rainbow baby!

secondly - I'd probably call a doctor to talk about the extra long cycle. They may give you another timeframe to wait until before coming in for tests but at least you can get the call in.

 

[JLObytheBeach]

Hey! So into November for me. The positive is 2 cycles in a row at 30 days.
I am having a FSH test tomorrow and sending DH for one as well. Has anyone ran into low counts for DH due to taking pre workout ? Curious...seen mixed info online.

 

[JLObytheBeach]

I would say maybe a quick call to the Dr. If your temps aren't dropping it seems AF is not yet on her way however 24-28 days past O..I'd just call and check. Maybe they can do a test or 2.

Hello, I am new here. My DH (40) and I (37) are TTC for over 2 years, did 4 IUI all failed. I stopped going to the clinic since May this year, too depressed after my 4th failed IUI.
My last period started on 9/22 and my cycle is usually 26 ~ 28 days, I usually O between CD11 ~ CD15. I was away for a week in early Oct so I didn't track my O with OPK this cycle. Now I am on CD39, no AF, 3 BFN. I checked my BBT yesterday and today both 98.0, but I haven't tracked my BBT since May so I don't think this means much.
I am very confused and frustrated, should I keep waiting until I get my AF or BFP?

 

[mikihope]

Wish- Oh no, do you have your power back yet? Too bad you couldn’t work from home today. I knew you’d enjoy the concert! And that "blackbear" guy sounds super annoying. Wow, I’m envious, a fun Halloween party and a free crib to boot! That was so awesome. Maybe you can paint the top half of the brown one white, and the top half of the white one brown
Yeah, my life in Singapore was really fun, but I am so much happier here on many levels. A big thing for me is being outdoors and in nature, so I’m in my element here. Hehe, 'gummy' isn’t a suitable name? Well, naming him is a work in progress. We’ve agreed on a couple of names, but we haven’t committed to them yet.

JLo- I hope your FSH test and DH’s test go well tomorrow!

Welcome, Yu! I’m sorry that you’ve had a hard time with your past IUI attempts. I hope that you find success soon... maybe a BFP this cycle!

AFM- I’ve been up and down regarding my attempts to deal with my gestational diabetes, and sadly it’s been more down than up. I have had to eliminate so much food and drink (I now just drink water, or sparkling water to simulate soda). And for what I can eat, I have to figure out how much, so I am forever checking the portions and the amounts of carbs in everything. I can’t just eliminate carbs to get a nice and low number on the monitor, as gummy needs enough carbs. So I have been spending the entire day reading up, planning what to eat for the next snack or meal (6 snacks and meals per day), and I have to walk after each meal, and then test exactly at 1 hour after the first bite.
I was in tears a few times over the weekend, it has been very hard. I’ve been trying hard, and I’m often hungry. I feel like a failure every time I have a high reading, and I’m so afraid each time before I test. I almost broke down in the grocery store when I couldn’t find anything much I could buy to eat. I have only recently been able to go to a grocery store and not feel food aversions, so everything looked yummy to me again, but I couldn’t buy anything that looked good. I was actually rather averse to sweets and desserts before, but then I suddenly developed a huge craving a few weeks ago! It’s been so draining, but I’m keeping a food diary and hoping that I figure out what works for me. Oh, and eating out seems almost impossible, I’ve had a high reading every time no matter how I try to choose low carb options. So now we’re having to spend time figuring out what meals to prepare, and it’s time consuming. I feel like quitting work, because I’m now left with no time to do anything other than deal with GD, and I haven’t done anything with the baby prep stuff (except for going for a couple of classes).

Sorry for the big whine. I hope to be more upbeat soon!

 

[Wish2BMom]

good luck with your tests, JLo! I haven't seen any evidence either way on the SA for DH being impacted by workout. My DH did his in the morning before going to work so pre-workout as well. His was fine, but never had one post-workout so couldn't compare.

miki - ugh, GD sounds so complicated! Are you able to use something like a pita pocket or wrap for a sandwich, and then fill with yummy goodness like avocado, deli meat (after heating up!), and veggies? how about hummus and a veggie like carrots? Can you make smoothies? I totally agree - eating super healthy takes SO MUCH MORE work! I'm really trying now too - I've prepped a whole rotisserie chicken into chicken salad for lunches, with some red grapes rolled in, on multigrain bread. I picked up some small V8s to drink as well - that might count as a portion for you? Then some clementines, kiwis, yogurts. Trying to keep the sweet and savory sides going too so my taste buds don't get bored. I don't know if any of these things work for you but thought I'd throw them out there. Oh, and I have a bag of trail mix that I keep close too and munch on for one of my portions of the day.

yup, we got power back yesterday around noon. Thank goodness! Haha, good plan on the crib painting! or I can just paint them both gray to go with the rest of the room. Yikes, the thought of painting each spindle of a crib sounds daunting! never mind!!

wicky, ask, all, carib, yu, rainy, terri, taurus and any other lurkers - :wave:

 

[yushirley]

Thank you all for the advice. I plan to call the doc next week, but I just moved so I am still debating if I should go back to my old doc or find a new one in the area.
Question, if my temp went up to 98 (my coverline was 97.4 when I was charting BBT), that means I did O this cycle, correct?

 

[JLObytheBeach]

I would say yes. They say as long as it's an increase of .5.

Thank you all for the advice. I plan to call the doc next week, but I just moved so I am still debating if I should go back to my old doc or find a new one in the area.
Question, if my temp went up to 98 (my coverline was 97.4 when I was charting BBT), that means I did O this cycle, correct?

 

[Rainshiny]

Hi all- more later but quickly dropping in to respond to Miki- I don’t know a lot about diabetes, but it seems like your body is super sensitive, and your blood sugar is not easy to manage. You’re trying so hard. I don’t like that you’re hungry either. My cousin has diabetes and he watches what he eats overall, not weighing anything or whichever, and tests his blood and if it’s high he whips out some insulin and voila (one time he did this while we were in the car on the highway- and he was driving! He’s a pro.) I wonder if going the insulin route might make things so much less stressful for you! Are you talking to your docs again soon?

 

[mikihope]

Wish- Glad you have your power back! Now you can see properly to paint your cribs Thank you for your suggestions! I've been using calorieking to check the carb values of stuff, and pita bread takes up almost the entire allocated carbs for one meal. Avacado seems to have a fair amount of carbs too. Sadly, fruit also tends to be full of carbs. It's actually shocking to me how many non-carby seeming things contain a fair amount of carbs. That's the headache for me, even things like the regular amount of bread in a sandwich can be too much for this diet. I like rotisserie chicken and I like v8, so I'm going to get those. Thanks!
It turns out that I can't eat much carbs for breakfast, which I've read is normal. Once I figured that out, I managed to keep my breakfast level nice and low. And our home cooked lunch and dinner yielded great results too. I even snuck in a spicy crispy leg from Popeyes in my otherwise super healthy dinner and the blood sugar was low. Luckily DH and I are pretty good cooks, and we like cooking. We haven't had enough time or energy for a long time to cook regularly, but I guess it's a good thing we're forced to now.

Rain- Thank you so much for dropping by for support, and thanks for letting me know about your cousin and how insulin worked for him. Yeah, it surprised me that I was so sensitive. I guess that's the weird thing about gestational diabetes -- one moment you're fine, and the next moment your blood sugars spike easily. Plus they are strict about the blood sugar levels for the sake of baby. I checked and the maximum acceptable level is actually less than for someone WITHOUT diabetes. So those readings where I was a few points above max were actually kind of expected. I had chinese take out and a slice of pizza for those. Bad me, but those were leftovers, and I didn't want to waste food It seems that I'm starting to figure things out, and hopefully they'll let me continue to try to use diet to control my GD. I'm trying to not go on insulin if possible, but I'll accept that I need it if it comes to it! I have a phone call each week where I give all my readings for the week, and I guess they'll know if I'm managing or I need meds. My first call is Thursday!

Yu- I agree with JLO, that is a big enough temp increase for O!

How's everyone else doing?

 

[Wish2BMom]

oh man, miki!! I would have thought pita was only a little bit of carbs!! geez, I must be carb-loading on a daily basis then... how's about some celery and hummus for 3 of your meals of the day?? SHEESH!!

I got a GREAT sleep last night! I want to skip along the mountains and sing about it! It's like I almost have to work myself into a state of zombiness and THEN I'll be able to sleep through the night. So I'm expecting not to be able to sleep well tonight. Though I have a few things going on after work until 9 so maybe I'll just be butt-tired and have the same experience. FX'ed! HA!

wicky - did you have your next appt yet?

ask - when do you start your meds for the transfer cycle? it's about a month from today, right??

rain - always with the awesome advice. New advice for twin mom going into 3rd tri?? I think I might have had my first BH last night, though I wonder - if I'm not sure, could it have been or is it much more obvious? My stomach got tight and I had what felt like mild PMS cramps. But it was all so mild that I could have been making it up b/c I recently looked up what they are supposed to feel like since I haven't had them yet.

mrsr and vonn - I hope you're both doing awesome with your new littles!!