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Mummy and expecting!
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So, after almost 6 months of trying, we'd finally stopped getting excited each month to test. I'd told my partner I can't keep doing it, I'm only going to bother testing if I have a late period etc
This morning started out as the most horrible morning I've had in a while - my son's biological father (abusive to us both, not had anything to do with DS in nearly 4 years, DS has no idea who he is) has decided to run to Mediation - he doesn't think it's fair that he should have to pay child maintenance for DS, he's got a new partner so why should his past be dragging him down when they could be using that money to go on more holidays, essentially.
Only, he's not likely to tell Mediation that. He's more likely to try and say he's desperate to see DS and I'm stopping him, as that's more likely to drag out and cause and problems etc
So, stress and crying at not being sure what to do. Mediation wants me to pay £99 just to go and talk to them (and tell them everything i've already told the ex), if I don't, he may be able to twist it to look bad on me.
Mood ruined for the rest of the day, if not the week, I thought.
Went to the toilet.
Realised that (my periods are never spot on) one period predictor I used said my period should have started two days ago, another one said today.
Eh, may as well stick a test in just incase.
Two blue lines. One's very faint, but definitely two.
Another stick in the pot.
Two blue lines again.
Sat there pondering for ages if I was seeing things, if I should wait a few more days or just get the (expensive ) digital test out JUST to be sure.
Sod it, they've sat in the drawer for months, may as well use them.
"PREGNANT. 1-2 WEEKS"
Oh. Oh okay then
I'm over the moon, still kinda convinced I'm imagining it and keep double checking the test - trying to figure out how to tell my partner when he gets home from work (he'll be happy, but I want to make it "special" ).
But I'm also still extremely stressed and distressed about the ex popping up to cause us trouble again.
I did not think it was possible to feel extreme emotions at two completely different ends of the scale AT THE SAME TIME
So yes. Here I am
(Sorry if this makes no sense at all, I am rambling. I also can't tell anyone else yet until I've AT LEAST told my partner so it's quite hard keeping it in )
Hello!
This morning started out as the most horrible morning I've had in a while - my son's biological father (abusive to us both, not had anything to do with DS in nearly 4 years, DS has no idea who he is) has decided to run to Mediation - he doesn't think it's fair that he should have to pay child maintenance for DS, he's got a new partner so why should his past be dragging him down when they could be using that money to go on more holidays, essentially.
Only, he's not likely to tell Mediation that. He's more likely to try and say he's desperate to see DS and I'm stopping him, as that's more likely to drag out and cause and problems etc
So, stress and crying at not being sure what to do. Mediation wants me to pay £99 just to go and talk to them (and tell them everything i've already told the ex), if I don't, he may be able to twist it to look bad on me.
Mood ruined for the rest of the day, if not the week, I thought.
Went to the toilet.
Realised that (my periods are never spot on) one period predictor I used said my period should have started two days ago, another one said today.
Eh, may as well stick a test in just incase.
Two blue lines. One's very faint, but definitely two.
Another stick in the pot.
Two blue lines again.
Sat there pondering for ages if I was seeing things, if I should wait a few more days or just get the (expensive ) digital test out JUST to be sure.
Sod it, they've sat in the drawer for months, may as well use them.
"PREGNANT. 1-2 WEEKS"
Oh. Oh okay then
I'm over the moon, still kinda convinced I'm imagining it and keep double checking the test - trying to figure out how to tell my partner when he gets home from work (he'll be happy, but I want to make it "special" ).
But I'm also still extremely stressed and distressed about the ex popping up to cause us trouble again.
I did not think it was possible to feel extreme emotions at two completely different ends of the scale AT THE SAME TIME
So yes. Here I am
(Sorry if this makes no sense at all, I am rambling. I also can't tell anyone else yet until I've AT LEAST told my partner so it's quite hard keeping it in )
Hello!