Bit of a pointless post...

[LadyMuck80]

I miscarried a year ago today. I am 28 weeks pregnant with my first child and I am SO thankful as I know I am lucky. I just feel a bit melancholy today, wondering about the baby that I lost.

I have had a nice day with DH and we have talked everything through, but still feel a little down. Am sure I'll bounce back tomorrow.

As I said, a pointless post, but I wanted to get it off my chest.

 

[Kasey84]

Sorry for you loss hun. I think it's completely normal to feel down on the anniversary of your mc. Almost impossible not to be affected by it. I just got past what would have been my due date in June and that was pretty tough. I'm certain the anniversary of the mc will be a hard day too. I also had a blighted ovum which we found out about at 14+2 on Christmas Eve. I often think about the baby and what could have been. I usually LOVE Christmas, but I'm not sure how I'll feel about the holiday this year. mc can certainly change your life...hope your feeling better tomorrow.

Congrats on your pregnancy by the way All the best!

 

[PugLuvAh]

Not a pointless post at all! A ways back there was a thread about what people did in memorium of their lost little ones. Some people got a little charm to remember the loss, others did a more formal remembrance, and some chose to focus on the future rather than the past. Its completely individual and no one can tell you how to feel.

I always think about the baby we would have had, but because of timing it would have meant I wouldn't have my son who is the light of my heart. Still, I wonder who they would have been and what our family would have been like. I feel like it happend for a reason, but that doesn't take away from my loss and grief.

and congrats on the new pregnancy

 

[Butterball Ma]

I wonder about my lost babies still, and one was 14 years ago. My consolation is that if I'd had them, I wouldn't have my amazing daughter, who was my 1st rainbow baby. And the most recent LO wouldn't be at 27 weeks today, if I had delivered in March. I'm not choosing some over the others, by any means, but I wouldn't trade Tori or this little Mav for anything.

 

[mum2rugrats]

It's not a pointless post, it's absolutely natural to feel as you do, your baby will always be in you heart regardless of if its been 1 week or ten years xxx