happy-evie
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ok so today I finally plucked u the courage to tell my Mum about being pregnant.
I woke up feeling like I just couldnt handle being at home with such a big secret so i went downstairs with no plan of what or how I were to say it but all i knew was i had to just come out and say it!
i nticed sher was eatingher lunch so I walked into the kitchen instead where I met my brother who already knew..."I cant do it anymore I have to tell mum today" he sighed and gave me a hug and told me to calm down and not to let it get me down. So we went to his room where we waited for mum to finsh eating. as soon as she finished my heard was beating sooo fast i started to feel dizzy.
Mum and sister came into the room where my brother had told them we needed to talk and my mum said "what is it" and looked im my face and just said "your pregnant?!" i just put my hand over my mouth and nodded and she cried and walked out of the room.
I burst into tears at the thought of her being so upset she had resulted into tears. as she came back in she said how she was dissapointed and why didnt i finish uni and stuff. Her face was so red which really upset me...especially because having a red face and being a black person shows alot of emotion.
well to cut a 2-3 hour emotion filled talk/lecture/expression of feelings short...she didnt take it so well...at the end of the conversation she did lighten up and I thought it was fine but now she is off with me and I feel so odd now..my sister was shocked and thought I was joking untill she saw how upset mum was...I hope she comes to terms with the situation soon and we can be close again because although i thought i braced myself for the worst i feel very down right now.
OH told his mum aswell and she took it much more better, well hes older so it would be but good news to her I guess.
I woke up feeling like I just couldnt handle being at home with such a big secret so i went downstairs with no plan of what or how I were to say it but all i knew was i had to just come out and say it!
i nticed sher was eatingher lunch so I walked into the kitchen instead where I met my brother who already knew..."I cant do it anymore I have to tell mum today" he sighed and gave me a hug and told me to calm down and not to let it get me down. So we went to his room where we waited for mum to finsh eating. as soon as she finished my heard was beating sooo fast i started to feel dizzy.
Mum and sister came into the room where my brother had told them we needed to talk and my mum said "what is it" and looked im my face and just said "your pregnant?!" i just put my hand over my mouth and nodded and she cried and walked out of the room.
I burst into tears at the thought of her being so upset she had resulted into tears. as she came back in she said how she was dissapointed and why didnt i finish uni and stuff. Her face was so red which really upset me...especially because having a red face and being a black person shows alot of emotion.
well to cut a 2-3 hour emotion filled talk/lecture/expression of feelings short...she didnt take it so well...at the end of the conversation she did lighten up and I thought it was fine but now she is off with me and I feel so odd now..my sister was shocked and thought I was joking untill she saw how upset mum was...I hope she comes to terms with the situation soon and we can be close again because although i thought i braced myself for the worst i feel very down right now.
OH told his mum aswell and she took it much more better, well hes older so it would be but good news to her I guess.
I was really upset and ran upstairs crying and mom yelled at him 
. But later he came up and told OH and I, "I'm sorry for overreacting earlier. I will support you guys no matter what." He was still pretty distant and disappointed but he's warmed up a lot. He went out and bought me baby clothes and talks about her now, so...
