So, I'm wondering what changes are considered normal while you are in your childbearing stage of your life. I started out a perky 34B, during my pregnancy I went to a 36C and even almost a D (which is huge for my frame) in the first few weeks of nursing. Well, since then they have shrunk back down to a B cup, except they have lost ALL of their perkiness Now being 5 months pregnant (still nursing my 17 month old) I am so glad that they are gaining their fullness back. I am so self conscious about how "saggy" they have become.. glad to see my perky girls are back! So when the NEXT baby is over a year old and not nursing as often, do you think they will shrink back down and be the same or even worse? I'd normally not consider plastic surgery, but DAMN I can't believe how much wear motherhood really puts on your body. I mean, I'm happy about it in a way and lucky, but at the same time I just have lost all of my confidence from how many changes my body has gone through since entering motherhood. Anyone else? How did/are you "getting over it"? How do you gain your confidence back?