can i join plz

[taylor197878]

after 14 years and 4 kids with my oh i have finished with him he lies about drinking and goes on 1 to many benders and i have had enough

he has his own house but afer another bender he went to the docs told me he was egtting help went to his house again and bk on a bender he says he isnt and its all in my head but he wont answer his door to me and has turned his phone off

he has blamed it on his anti depressents but they dont make u feel that shit like he says they do where he cant talk to no one

its all 1 big excuse and blames me for it all saying its in my head

had enough been going on for 9 years 7 years bad and im sick off felling like shit casue of him

i just dont know how i will cope with 4 kids its going to be so hard and right now im not that strong i have alot of meantal health problems as well

anyway popping in to say hi :wave:

 

[hancake100]

Hi Welcome.......

Im a single mummy to a 16month old, been split with FOB (of 5.5years) 3months(ish) ago and it was so tough at first but there are so many lovely people on here to offer support Things are just starting to feel a little better for me, we will all get there is the end.x

 

[justlove]

hi & welcome, I have two children, stroppy teenager who is also a helpful angel at times and a baby 21weeks old. I think you will cope just fine you probably already been doing it alone for many years given what you have said about ur oh

 

[taylor197878]

tks found out last night he had been meeting woman on dating websites and going behind my bk for 8 months i just cant believe it i feel so angry and numb i cant believe he done that