Can I NOT get pregnant! Too OLD? SCREAM!

[PositiveUs]

Did you test this morning?

 

[ckylesworld]

Yes with a frer and a BFN and last night i had light pink when I wiped and now today it is more red. Guess af got me at 12dpo

 

[PositiveUs]

Sorry to hear it. I was rooting for you! I wish you luck this cycle, and you are still young. Just gear up for the next O and buy preseed and temp and check opks and BD and lift your hips and use the soft cups if you want. Just do anything to make yourself feel better!

 

[ckylesworld]

Actually I have been doing all of that except for the soft cups. I have them but they scare me I was thinking of not doing anything and trying to trick myself into thinking I wasnt trying hoping that would work. I go to a fertility specialist next cycle anyway so I thought what the heck.

 

[PositiveUs]

Good luck at the FS, they will help guide you. I only used softcups if I didn't have time to lay there. They are weird. But they made me feel like I was "doing" something. As if I had some control over the situation.
Good luck!

 

[ckylesworld]

Good luck at the FS, they will help guide you. I only used softcups if I didn't have time to lay there. They are weird. But they made me feel like I was "doing" something. As if I had some control over the situation.
Good luck!

Thank you so much and good luck to you too

 

[Jeninpa]

I was on Depo for 7yrs, I got the last shot 11/2010, started getting a period June or July 2011 & just finally got pregnant in May 2012. I didn't take anything or get any help. I know with Depo they say sometimes you can't have anymore or it takes a long time. I am 35 BTW I have a 17.5yr old son, 16yr old & 13yr old daughters & an 8.5yr old son. Hang in there, it will happen for you too

 

[ckylesworld]

I was on Depo for 7yrs, I got the last shot 11/2010, started getting a period June or July 2011 & just finally got pregnant in May 2012. I didn't take anything or get any help. I know with Depo they say sometimes you can't have anymore or it takes a long time. I am 35 BTW I have a 17.5yr old son, 16yr old & 13yr old daughters & an 8.5yr old son. Hang in there, it will happen for you too

Wow you dont know how encouraging that is for me. My fear is when I go to the FS they will say I dont have any good eggs or something like that that will be something I cant do anything about. (I have control issues )

 

[grace10209]

Hi girl
I am in the same boat as you as I think I even messaged you once or twice before. Anyway, My last shot was 12/1/11 and i have been waiting for AF. I am charting and I had a rise in my temps for 9 days, so I think I did O and get AF last month but it was very light AF and only last 2 days so im unsure if it needed to be "full flow" to be called AF.

The fact that you have had 6 confirmed cycles of O and good timing should mean something. How do you know you really O'd? are you charting your temps?
I only ask because sometimes OPK's can be tough and people read them wrong -

I think its awesome that you are going to see a Fertility specialist. they will do a ton of testing to be sure there is nothing wrong. BUT DONT WORRY even if they find something - they can fix almost anything out there. Please strong stress, even if you have bad eggs, there are options to fix that.

Just have faith, YOU WILL GET YOUR BFP and have a healthy baby. just believe it.

im seeing a specialist too, they did a ton of testing of me and DH, they started me on provera yesterday and then probably clomid. I just turned 36 so Im with you on the age thing!!!!!!!!

It will happen

ps - you can see my charts in my signature, i highly recommend charting. its really good and will help you i think -

 

[ckylesworld]

I have been charting and seeing my obgyn since january so I have been having ultrasounds to check follicles when I was on clomid and when I wasnt on it my bbt confirmed O. So Im sure I have O'ed every month since january. I have a 12yr old son so I know I can get pregnant. That is the only time I tried to get pregnant so far besides now so we will see.
Your raise in temps for 9 days sounds promising.

I added a link to my ff chart too

My Ovulation Chart ||

 

[grace10209]

Hi there
you have SO many things in your favor
1) you are definitly O'ing each month
2) you have had a health pregnancy and child before

I would say just TRY to relax a bit. Go to specialist as planned but try to not stress, I KNOW EASIER SAID THEN DONE! but they always say "as soon as you stop trying, you will get bfp"

I use the instead cups and preseed. Not sure if they are needed but I figure it can't hurt and will only help the situation.

This will be my 1st round of provera/clomid, any tips advice you want to share?
You are way ahead of me as you have already O'd with this combo. You will definitly get your bfp soon! have faith!!!!!!

Is her 12 yr old with your current partner? have you had an SA Done?

 

[ckylesworld]

No my son is by my ex. I'm trying to relax
And as for clomid, it makes me have like 3 days of +opks and at first lots of bloating. Also I recommend taking mucinex or robitussin to help cm and pressed or concieve plus.

 

[grace10209]

well its great you are going to specialist. they should do an SA. It will happen girl

Like i said, im taking provera now (first time) and then will likely start clomid, so im a little behind you. Plus I have never been pregnant before.

good luck!!

 

[Jeninpa]

I was on Depo for 7yrs, I got the last shot 11/2010, started getting a period June or July 2011 & just finally got pregnant in May 2012. I didn't take anything or get any help. I know with Depo they say sometimes you can't have anymore or it takes a long time. I am 35 BTW I have a 17.5yr old son, 16yr old & 13yr old daughters & an 8.5yr old son. Hang in there, it will happen for you too

Wow you dont know how encouraging that is for me. My fear is when I go to the FS they will say I dont have any good eggs or something like that that will be something I cant do anything about. (I have control issues )

Awww! I'm glad it helped I know I spent months searching the internet to see how long it took others to conceive after taking Depo for so long & all I found were people asking the same thing