brewskysmom
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I just found out that I am pregnant, I am 6 weeks along. I am scared, excited, nervous, worried....I have my first doctors appointment scheduled for next friday, I know he is a good doctor because my mom used to work for him about 10 years ago. The thing is though, I am 22 years old. I just transferred from a community college to a 4 year school and have about 2 years left. I want to have this baby, but I am scared. Will I be able to stay in school? The baby is due during my spring break. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a very strong relationship. He is supposed to go back to school in January to get his masters degree. When I first told him I was pregnant he told me he wanted me to get an abortion. Now he says he is behind me no matter what I decide, he says if I decide to have the baby he will come around. I feel like we need to both have a joint decision in this, not just me. What if he resents me for my decision later? I also work full time and will be going to school full time at night. Do you think I am being naive by assuming we can still keep these plans. I know it will be hard but I think we are capable. My boyfriend thinks he won't be able to go back to school. I don't know what to do.