Can the pregnant people around me stop complaining?!?!?!?

[pinkreality]

just wondering why pinkreality is posting on a long term ttc forum?????? join date march 2012 and now preggo! dont think you know much abt lttc, if all you have to do with your time is put such harsh and uncalled for posts on our forum belittling the feelings of women in very real pain then i feel sorry for you,and i wouldnt swap places with you , even tho you are preggo you are very mean spirited.

Are you kidding me? You know nothing about me and my journey, just because I have just joined means nothing. I'm sorry you didn't even read my post because if you did then you would clearly see that I'm not trying to be mean spirited I'm just saying it isn't fair that people don't have the right to complain just because you feel as though your problem is bigger than theirs. I stated my opinion and I thought I had the right to, sorry.

 

[hopefull85]

oh i so know the feeling my pregnant SIL can say some stupid stuff and half the time i honestly think she doesnt think before she speaks. or when you have someone get angry with you because they think you arent happy for someone and hate every single pregnant woman out there, its not that we hate that woman its the fact of the matter. its people that have been blessed with one child who annoy me when they try to get on your case about how you feel. this is the only place i can come to and not feel bad about what i write because i know there are women who now exactly what i am going through. i just want to scream.............

 

[babyhopes2010]

i was lttc and even tho i have beautiful girl i will NEVER ever forget how hard it was for me LTTC.

when i was pregnant i did have a moan its hard and now shes here and she isnt a well girl i moan. doesnt mean i havent forgot what lttc was like.

having said that id be v careful who i was moaning to and am v v sensitive to those lttc'ers.alot of people dont tell anyone so when my friends got pregnant they assumed i didnt want kids/

 

[abrock]

I am a little bit confused...this is a ltttc forum correct? Then why as I am reading these posts do I feel a little peak of anger for some of these comments? I was under the assumption that this was a SAFE place to go to vent or to read of others struggling with the same battles of infertility. Yes. I understand that some of you are pregnant now. Move on to your pregnancy thread then. I haven't been on this site in a little while. I thought I would come and check in on some of the girls and see what was new and now I just feel sick reading these comments. The bottom line is that it is NEVER okay for a pregnant woman to vent to a woman she KNOWS is struggling with conceiving. PERIOD. I can see the other side too...pregnancy sucks sometimes....why not complain to someone who cares? i.e. NOT your infertile friend.
On a side note, my coworker likes to complain to me about how she feels like a single parent (she is married to a farmer). She knows I can't get pregnant. I told her that she is lucky and I would do anything for that. She replies with some day I will understand. HA! Someday I MIGHT understand. She is inconsiderate above many other things. She also likes to give me remedies to cure my infertility. She is such a ...starts with a B...and ends in an ITCH!

P.S. I did not post this to start anymore controversy. Like I said previously this is supposed to be a safe zone. How about instead of posting rude comments to women that are just trying to make it through the day/month/year without going crazy over their inability to conceive you just move on to the next chapter of your lives. I do wish all of you that are pregnant a h&h 9 months....just move on to the appropriate forum. Thank you.

 

[babyhopes2010]

wow that was rude. Ok so i cant look at lttc forum cos i have a baby geezzzzzzzzzz.

and u think i never struggled....ermmm maybe if u were around long enough u would have seen my posts when i was lttc,longer then you infact.

i think ur very bitter person.i come on here to give women hope not to rub there noses in it.

u have ur wish i wont come on here again.

 

[babyhopes2010]

oh and btw when this thread was started i was lttc NOT pregnant!

 

[booflebump]

Given the fact this thread is actually 2 years old, the argument can stop right here.

LTTC is a safe haven for those who are experiencing a long journey, and it should remain that way.