Welshcob
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I am afraid of asking for maintenance via CSA or any other means. Because it will set FOB off into one and likely cause him to go mad. But - is there a choice not to? If there is, can you get more help from the government? I am afraid for babies safety and mine. But thought that with CSA keeping everything private that I would have a bit more protection. What I suspect though is that it will incite him to want access etc. Although I know he could turn up wanting that anyway even if I were not claiming maintenance. Infact I think he will regardless. But is there a choice not to claim from him? I doubt I will manage well without his money and he did plan this baby with me - its just that hes changed his mind now.