sweetsammi
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As you will know if you read my previous posts.. Oliver is screaming constantly and not sleeping despite all our efforts and im having probs with my OH not having any patience with him...Well things have just got from bad to worse today. Oliver screamed all night..he slept for half an hour. So obviousilly we are both exhausted, frustrated and feelin really down about it. We took him doctors this morn and finally had it confirmed that he has bad colic. And my and my OH wont stop fighting. Earlier he turned around and said he doesnt love Oliver and wants nothing to do with him. I told him hes being silly and doesnt mean it, that hes just tired and down. But he is adament he genuinly doesnt want to be a part of his life, that he isnt cut out to be a father and cannot cope. This has broken my heart and i dont know what to do. My OH has gone out and said he doesnt know when he will be back. Oliver is screaming- has been since 8am. and I cannot cope. I feel poorly and i cannot bare to look at my OH. I cant stop crying. I dont know what to do. i have no friends or family here as they all live elsewhere. And on top of that, i overheard my OH's dad who is a psychiatric nurse telling him that he thinks i may have OCD (Obsessive compulsive disorder) because since Ollie arrived i cannot stop cleaning and lining things up etc. And now hes got me thinkin perhaps i do have a problem x