cant do this anymore

[Gemmamumof2]

not sure where post this as theres loads things happening in ttc and dont feel welcome..

i been trying for 3 years now and today af came
not sure why its bothered me soo much this month maybe as its valentines day and im sensetve, then went on ttc and seen a big valentine bfp announcment and i just broke down..

we're totally unexplained so cant get no help as doctors are a little off with us for some reason.

i feel soo silly sitting here crying but im devestated... i really felt something this month... it just gets harder....

 

[bubbamadness]

Ahh, so sorry you got your af . It's so horrible, all you want is a BFP and then the awlful af arrives bang on time. I've even had it where af was 3 days late. Got my hopes up even more. Tested and got a BFP and then had af come that night. It's so heartbreaking. My af is due to arrive on 25th Feb, so will have to see what happens. Not very positive about it though and hate the wait.
If you need someone to talk to then I am here for you.

 

[bubbamadness]

Ahh, so sorry you got your af . It's so horrible, all you want is a BFP and then the awlful af arrives bang on time. I've even had it where af was 3 days late. Got my hopes up even more. Tested and got a BFP and then had af come that night. It's so heartbreaking. My af is due to arrive on 25th Feb, so will have to see what happens. Not very positive about it though and hate the wait.
If you need someone to talk to then I am here for you.

Don't give up! xxx

 

[embryo]

 

[hollyhopeful2]

Rotten af stories! I have one; in Septmber, my temps were really high. I only had one dip the whole tww and they just kept climbing from there; My lp has always been 14 days without fail; well, that month on dpo15 (when af would normally come and my temp would drop) my temp went even higher!! I was confident enough to show dh my chart (which i never do) and we were so happy! Then the next morning my temp dropped...and af came....I was utterly devastated. I really know how you feel; i think we all do...and the suckiest part is there is no customer service manager to complain to! There's no one you can look at and say; "well! I'll never come HERE again!"
I'm so sorry AF came...

 

[baby_hopes23]

I'm SO sorry your AF came Gemmamumof2, that's the worst day for anyone TTC...I feel even more bad that it sounds like doctors won't help you out? I had the same issue when I was TTC #1, I felt like my doc was not at ALL empathetic or interested in providing any extensive help in getting me to achieve my dream of becoming a mom. I spent months so down and felt hopeless until I finally switched doctors. My new doc immediately felt sympathy for me (probably because I broke down crying at my 1st appointment!), and she vowed to do whatever she could in her position to help me have a baby. After doing a few weeks of testing, blood work to determine my hormone levels, a sperm analysis for my DH and an HSG x-ray to make sure my tubes weren't blocked, she simply deemed us "unexplained infertility" and it also appeared my estrogen may be too low to trigger ovulation. She put me on Provera to induce my period since it was absent for several months, then clomid to induce ovulation. 1st two months I did 50mg Clomid and didn't ovulate, the 3rd month I did 100mg, ovulated around day 20/21 of my cycle and became pregnant! My doctor also helped my close friend, she had regular periods and did ovulate regularly as well, but wasn't conceiving, so she put her on 50mg clomid just to help her produce better follicles and she fell pregnant a month before me!

I just wanted to let you know that I truly feel for you, I pray you're not feeling hopeless and if you feel like there needs to be something medical done to assist you in conceiving (if you haven't tried that already), then you absolutely have that right and there are doctors out there who are willing to help

((((HUGS!!))))

 

[Dodima1999]

not sure where post this as theres loads things happening in ttc and dont feel welcome..

i been trying for 3 years now and today af came
not sure why its bothered me soo much this month maybe as its valentines day and im sensetve, then went on ttc and seen a big valentine bfp announcment and i just broke down..

we're totally unexplained so cant get no help as doctors are a little off with us for some reason.

i feel soo silly sitting here crying but im devestated... i really felt something this month... it just gets harder....

I'm so sorry for you . I completely understand though. We;ve been trying for 3 years now and have 3 IUIs, (Well docs say 2 cause they only did the insemination twice cause first one didn't take at all) I'm in such a rollercoaster of emotions this past week. I was supposed to test on 16/02 but AF decided to come with a valentines present for me.

We have an appointment with our doctor tomorrow morning and I'm nervous as hell at what he's going to say. To top it off I'm starting a new job tomorrow so if he says lets do another IUI or go straight for IVF I'll be like well I have to put this off for at least 6 months cause my job won't give me any time off.
I'm actually starting to cry typing this.... just really want my BFP and a baby in my arms and the thoughts of having to put it off is killing me.
Why does life have to throw such shit at some people who just don't deserve it......