cant even handle one night out

[libbymarks198]

it was one of my best friends 20th birthdays last night she had a bus trip, it is a bus where everyone drinks on and there is music and it takes you around a series of pubs and clubs over the nights and you meet up with other bus's it is really cool and i love them but this was my first ever sober bus trip, at first i was doing good dancing with my friends but then everyone started to get very drunk and falling over starting fights pushing i was so scared that i was going to fall over or get hit or something os i ended up sitting down most of the night, at the 2nd pub i ended up in tears in the bathroom and didnt get back on the bus spent 2 hours ringing people trying to find someone to pick me up.

i cant believe i am only 9 weeks pregnant and i could not even handle one night out with my mates I can see i am going to loose some of my freinds as they are never going to invite me out anywhere, they where all so understanding and told me i need to look after myself and my freind said thanks for coming and trying to stick it out, but i know they where a bit annoyed with me

sorry just a wee rant i am a bit sad this morning

 

[Jadelm]

Aw don't feel bad hun, you're just looking out for your LO and that's the most important thing the next 7 months will feel like the longest time ever with not going out etc but once it's up you can go out again with your friends and it'll be a lot more enjoyable as it'll be more of a luxury People will understand, you're pregnant, you're not gonna be up for long nights out clubbing and watching everyone else get hammered! If they don't get that then they're not worth your friendship anyways xxx

 

[rainbows_x]

Aww I'm sorry you didn't have a good time.
I carried on clubbing until 15 weeks as I was so scared someone would bump into my belly or push me over or something.
I still met up with friends at mine or their houses, or have quiet nights in pubs, as they are less busy.
It's not that you can't handle it hun, you are making sure you and LO are okay and don't get hurt! x x

 

[DazedConfused]

Blah bus trips! I still go to house parties One of my mates is always a sober driver so I usually stick to them, and OH doesn't drink now.

SO sorry you had a bad time of it, I still go into Boogies because OH used to work there, so we get in early chat to staff have a couple cheap fruit juices and hang, and also Cruz! lol

My friends were a bit crap before 12 weeks as I was so exhausted, also didn't know I was preggo. People got better once I got a bump though it's more real for others then.

I hope you're doing okay other than that though

Maybe we could txt buddy up or something if you needed it?

No pressure and look after yourself

 

[libbymarks198]

Blah bus trips! I still go to house parties One of my mates is always a sober driver so I usually stick to them, and OH doesn't drink now.

SO sorry you had a bad time of it, I still go into Boogies because OH used to work there, so we get in early chat to staff have a couple cheap fruit juices and hang, and also Cruz! lol

My friends were a bit crap before 12 weeks as I was so exhausted, also didn't know I was preggo. People got better once I got a bump though it's more real for others then.

I hope you're doing okay other than that though

Maybe we could txt buddy up or something if you needed it?

No pressure and look after yourself

i have a house party this friday night then on saturday night a 21st at the peg lol dont know if i will bother going to either.
yeah i am hoping once i get a bump it will get better but then wont people look at you funny for being out and being pregnant, they probably think your drinking or something..?
would be good to text buddy up i get annoyed coming on here all the time just to talk to people who are pregnant the one girl i know who is we hated each other at school and it feels so forced txting her about it haha...

ill PM you my number hun

xx

 

[shimmy]

I just go out with a few friends , we just go to the pub or day/evening events on in my city
I get too worried to go out for nights into the centre , plus when you are not drunk you realise how dangerous people are. Why dont you go but make sure u have a lift back for a few hours into the party? say your hellos and have a bit of fun then go back and get some sleep . Well that would work for me , but what ever you want, your real friends will stick by you xx

 

[18singlemom2b]

aww so glad i stumbled across this post because i can relate

don't feel silly, i have felt the same way so many times since finding out i was pregnant. i still want to be social, spend time with friends, but i won't even tag along when you go out drinking anymore. because they never really take me into consideration, it bores me, even makes me jealous sometimes, and i don't want to be around it. a birthday dinner, of course i would never miss but a late night out, i just can't handle it. your friends should understand the changes your going through, and if they don't, they aren't worth your time hun. i had to learn that the very hard way about my friends.

 

[DazedConfused]

Got the num

I get the jealousy thing! I SO JEALOUS of smoking women lol