cant trust any of tjese pregnancy symptoms

[thismonth]

I have had 2 mmc and am pregnant for the third time. With both mmc I still had strong pregnancy symptoms all the way up to the d n c s so this time I can't be reassured by any of my current symptoms. I had an early scan last tues which showed I'm 5 weeks instead of 6+4 no hb yet but if it is truly 5 weeks that's fine. What I'm worried abt is that it stopped growing a while ago ad my first mmc was around the same stage. I have to wait until next thurs until I get scanned again. Im going through hourly emotion changes of hope followed by preparing for the worst it is torture. Why is having a family so hard. Makes it worse since I'm a midwife and participate in other peoples baby journeys and joy, so difficult when you desperate to experience it yourself.

 

[zoe87]

hi it truley is worrying being pregnan again after 2 mc's. With my other pregnancies i had loads of symptoms sore boobs etc. up until i lost them. But with this pregnancy ive had no symptoms atall which worried abit but i have been reassured by my 12 week scan and hearing heartbeat. If you go onto pregnancy section and go to pregnancy buddies theres a thread called '3rd time lucky' with loads of friendly and helpful women on to help and give advice.
I know your only a few weeks on and that the 12 week scan may seem forever away but it will soon come.

 

[Gemma_xX]

I have had 2 mmc and am pregnant for the third time. With both mmc I still had strong pregnancy symptoms all the way up to the d n c s so this time I can't be reassured by any of my current symptoms. I had an early scan last tues which showed I'm 5 weeks instead of 6+4 no hb yet but if it is truly 5 weeks that's fine. What I'm worried abt is that it stopped growing a while ago ad my first mmc was around the same stage. I have to wait until next thurs until I get scanned again. Im going through hourly emotion changes of hope followed by preparing for the worst it is torture. Why is having a family so hard. Makes it worse since I'm a midwife and participate in other peoples baby journeys and joy, so difficult when you desperate to experience it yourself.

Heyy,
I had to mmc's last year, 1 at 12 weeks and 1 at 8, I had morning sickness the very morning I went for my 12wk scan only to be told the heart had stopped a week ago, so I agree the symptoms don't mean much, I try to ignore the symptoms and just go on what the scans say or my gut feeling, my gut feeling was right the 2nd time around x