Catalyst
Mother of 1 & TTC#2
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Hello, im new here.
In september 2008 I joined baby and bump becaus me and my OH had been trying for baby and I wanted to talk to other women about trying and the 2w waiting. I got lucky and got pg in october. So joining Baby and bump was lucky booster hehe
It was in the 5th try that I got pg.
Now my wonderful litle boy is almost 10 months old and we have started to talk about #2. My OH wants 2 years apart because he doesnt want far between babys but I want 3 years. Im not sure if im ready now to get pg but I realy do want another baby
I think im not ready because the birth didnt go too well. I dialated very fast but he was not fully (im not english and lacking the word) and I was trying to push for 2-3 hours but he didnt come down enaugh. So I got epidural because I was in so mutch pain that just grew and I could controle it anymore and then the babys heartbeat dropped for couple of min. So he was taken with a C-section. It revealed that he was not able to be born normaly because he was so tangled in the cord. It went around his back and shoulder.
Then the breasfeeding. A lot went on, I got blister, I bleed, I go so swollen my OH had to put the breast in the babys moth and hold it because I couldnt and so on the first 2 months were not good. I cryed because I felt like a failure but then It started to get better and after the 4th month it has been mostly good. Im still breast feeding and hes almost 10 months old! Im so proud of me for sticking it out.
And the third reason I want to wait is because we moved to a new plays just before I gave birth. So I dont have a job and here where I live you get a sum of the salary you have had for the bast 2 years conting from 6 montsh prior to when the babys born. Im posible got a job, Im going to check it out today and if I like it I will start in July and I dont want to have to tell them right away that Im pg! It is a good job with a good salary.
BUT!!! I do want a baby and It feels far away, Im thinking every day if I could handle two litle babys or if I should wait, start working in a new job and get some salary so when after the babys born I get some money.
Dont know what to do realy :S im so confused these days. But I dont get any pressure from OH he just says that I should stopp taking the pill if I want it.
If anyone read all this rant then you are heros 
haha
In september 2008 I joined baby and bump becaus me and my OH had been trying for baby and I wanted to talk to other women about trying and the 2w waiting. I got lucky and got pg in october. So joining Baby and bump was lucky booster hehe
It was in the 5th try that I got pg.Now my wonderful litle boy is almost 10 months old and we have started to talk about #2. My OH wants 2 years apart because he doesnt want far between babys but I want 3 years. Im not sure if im ready now to get pg but I realy do want another baby
I think im not ready because the birth didnt go too well. I dialated very fast but he was not fully (im not english and lacking the word) and I was trying to push for 2-3 hours but he didnt come down enaugh. So I got epidural because I was in so mutch pain that just grew and I could controle it anymore and then the babys heartbeat dropped for couple of min. So he was taken with a C-section. It revealed that he was not able to be born normaly because he was so tangled in the cord. It went around his back and shoulder.
Then the breasfeeding. A lot went on, I got blister, I bleed, I go so swollen my OH had to put the breast in the babys moth and hold it because I couldnt and so on the first 2 months were not good. I cryed because I felt like a failure but then It started to get better and after the 4th month it has been mostly good. Im still breast feeding
and hes almost 10 months old! Im so proud of me for sticking it out.And the third reason I want to wait is because we moved to a new plays just before I gave birth. So I dont have a job and here where I live you get a sum of the salary you have had for the bast 2 years conting from 6 montsh prior to when the babys born. Im posible got a job, Im going to check it out today and if I like it I will start in July and I dont want to have to tell them right away that Im pg! It is a good job with a good salary.
BUT!!! I do want a baby and It feels far away, Im thinking every day if I could handle two litle babys or if I should wait, start working in a new job and get some salary so when after the babys born I get some money.
Dont know what to do realy :S im so confused these days. But I dont get any pressure from OH he just says that I should stopp taking the pill if I want it.
If anyone read all this rant
then you are heros haha
