davidjoemum
mum to Davie and Sophie
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I have different surname to my kids as me and they dad are not married and by looks of it won't ever be( he keep saying he's not ready)it has been bother me for past 3 years that I don't share last name with my children.it might sound pathetic but I don't feel like part of my family oh and kids share the same surname and I don't.we were talking about getting married ages ago but now he's not ready well that's other long story.im not really fussed about this tbh but I would like to have proper family you know married parents and two kids i don't have my family my parents are dead and I don't have any siblings plus I'm foreign so my only family are my kids and the fact that I don't have the same name really bother me. I have spoken to oh that I will use deed poll to change my name to match theirs and he is fine with it.
My question is would that look desperate?
What is your opinion?
My question is would that look desperate?
What is your opinion?