Cheesed off and feel like cr....

[Laughkay]

I've just found out another person in my world is pregnant. And my world isn't really that big.

That takes the total of people who have conceived and had children in the time I've been trying (four years) to twenty. 20
This woman has met, married and conceived in the same time I've been trying.

I could honestly just crack up and cry. I've never felt so low.
Sorry to post a message like this. I had to let it out - I have no one to talk to as they don't understand. Even my hubby doesn't react the way I need him to.

 

[Gemie]

I'm so sorry

 

[Laughkay]

It's just getting harder to say "congratulations" with a smile and mean it.

 

[K123]

Really sorry to hear that - know how hard I've been finding it after 8 months and 5 pregnancy announcements - it must be so hard for you. Know my husband is finding it hard but not in the way I am often am, and understand just wanting somewhere you can say how you feel.

Not much else I can say - am sure you've heard it all before - just hoping it's your chance to get good news soon and sending you and

 

[CandyApple19]

it sucks doesn't it? everytime i see a bfp announcement or someone pregnant and totally oblivious to everything i've just been through i selfishly think 'It's alright for some.' And i hate myself for feeling so spiteful but i know i can't help it.

I have my days where i think IT WILL HAPPEN, and i get excited at the thought of it, but then when i realise its not happening right now like it was meant to, i get angry and turn into a bitch basically......

I honestly do feel for you...Here if u need a chat, i do know wat ur going through except ive not tried 4 yrs but it does feel like a life time....

 

[Gemie]

There are lots of girls on here who know exactly what you mean hun. I'm not in your situation but it must be heartbreaking.
Have you had tests done to see why it's taking so long? x

 

[K123]

Keep reminding myself of the comment I heard that someone else getting pregnant doesn't decrease your own chances .... but saying congratulations is so tough sometimes!!!

 

[Laughkay]

I know I'll be okay in an hour. Ever the optimist.
But sometimes I feel like I was behind the door when the rules to fertility were handed out!

 

[ky24 la la]

MASSIVE ure way hun, i know exactly how u feel, we've been trying 3yrs and 16ppl have fallen pregnant...ive gota admit each and every time i cried, and spent the nite in tears but wen i woke up i was just more determined than ever 2 carry on!!!

It is soooooo hard sometimes but just remember the most special day is yet 2 come for you, theirs will have been n gone!!!

i find that in these times my galaxy and bottle of rose r best friends for the nite tee hee!!!!!

You will have ure day soon

 

[Laughkay]

Thanks Ladies, you're all starting to make me feel better.

I've had the lap+dye and ovarian drilling (I've got PCOS) but they won't give me things like clomid because apparently my hormones are fine! My hubby would disagree with that remark...

 

[Laughkay]

Keep reminding myself of the comment I heard that someone else getting pregnant doesn't decrease your own chances .... but saying congratulations is so tough sometimes!!!

thanks for the reminder - I forget there isn't a limited amount of babies on offer! LOL!

See - laughing already!

 

[Gemie]

aww your day is to come hunni. Keep smiling and congratulating those who have their day already and keep looking forward to yours . x

 

[BabiNo2]

so sorry x