christmas

[laura1991]

Im so worried about what to do with FOB about christmas LO normally stays there friday night to saturday so he just assumes shell be going, im scared to tell him she wont because hes kind of intimidating, and will demand to come round to my house however I dont want him there and none of my family like him, i m really paniciing any ideas what I can do, or shall I just let her go?

 

[billy2mm]

if you dont want her to go then dont let her. tell him he can have her on boxing day instead or the 23rd-24th instead.

 

[Kacie]

like billy2mm said, see if he will have her the thurs to fri instead. I know what you mean about feeling intimidated and afraid to ask but it is something you need to get the strength to do now so he cannot walk over you in the future. I always feel bad about myself when I don't stand up to fob. I know it is a hard thing to do but it you will feel much stronger if you can tell him and it is a reasonable request.

hugs

xxxx