Clear blue not so clear!

[Icy]

Hi I am new to this but need some experienced advice. My Husband and I were trying to conceive since Aug 2011 I got pg in sept, had a chemical pregnancy. we got the ok to try again right away and we got pg again in Nov. right before xmas we found out it was ectopic and I lost it naturally without needing surgury. That was my second ectopic and it being so close to christmas it really scared me, so we decided to stop trying for awhile. So now I am showing pg symptoms, got a faint positive that disappeared after a couple minutes and a BFN on clear blue digital. Anyone have any insight on whats going on? Am I pregnant or is this just what happens after a loss? Any help would be appreciated.

 

[mammag]

As a general rule if the positive disappears, you should consider it negative, if for nothing else than to save yourself the heartache, I am very sorry for your losses , it may just be too early though. Good Luck

 

[Icy]

Thank you! That's what I was hoping to hear, seeing as I am soooo not ready to be pg right now.

 

[Icy]

I have an appt on monday so I guess I will know for sure then.