Clomid club - before, during and after

[caz & bob]

ttc your chart is cool hun when you going to xxxxxx

 

[Smile4me]

TTC

 

[ttcbaby117]

thanks ladies for looking- gonna try and test on sunday I think....

Lisa - wow you are going to be my temping guru.....I really appreciate your knowledge....please see question below LOL

I actually have a cm question....while checking today it had ewcm qualities (clear and stretchy) on certanin pieces but then some of it looked lotiony on other areas...how am I supposed to record it on FF....I put it as EWCM but wasnt sure! Sorry if this is to graphic!

 

[TySonNMe]

TTC, record your most fertile CM. Even if you have only a little EWCM, you should record that.

 

[caz & bob]

ttc might be your bfp hunnie xxxx fx for you xxxx

 

[babyloulou]

I really hope this is it for you ttc xxx

 

[lisaf]

thanks ladies for looking- gonna try and test on sunday I think....

Lisa - wow you are going to be my temping guru.....I really appreciate your knowledge....please see question below LOL

I actually have a cm question....while checking today it had ewcm qualities (clear and stretchy) on certanin pieces but then some of it looked lotiony on other areas...how am I supposed to record it on FF....I put it as EWCM but wasnt sure! Sorry if this is to graphic!

Haha, I wish I were a guru... I keep learning that you can't read too much into a chart... but at the same time, I keep trying (I guess I figure that I just haven't fully cracked the code yet or something, lol!). I'm very frustrated with my current temps... just not liking the look of my chart overall with the high pre-O temps and no big spike yet.

 

[yomo]

Sorry posting this everywhere need help!

Evening ladies, How are we all doing? I wondered if we have anyone on here that is studying law? I am having problems at work, My boss who is also a close friend has slipped out to the directors last week that I am under the hospital and trying for a baby! They have had me in the meeting room today as they are demoting me and cutting my pay as they say I am not giving my job 100%!!!! I am in total shock can they do that??? I know it has something to do with me trying for a baby I just know. x

 

[Onelildream]

Yomo-I am shocked. This sounds VERY ILLEGAL. Talk to a pro and sue, Girl! That makes me furious! What the crap is wrong with the world?!

 

[ttcbaby117]

thanks caz and loulou - I really hope this is it as I dont want to do the surgery!

lisa - I think your chart is ok...I mean the temps are not high but I have seen bfps from temps at that level...also it is still early so no implantation yet.

yomo - that is horrible! I cant believe they can do that. I know in the states people get sued for that...then again they sue for everything!!!! I can say taht b/c I am american btw....lol I hope it all works out hun!

 

[caz & bob]

hi girls yomo thats wrong that is this clomid is given me a bad head today xxxx

 

[babyloulou]

Yomo that is so wrong!!! If I was you I would post for advice on www.consumeractiongroup.co.uk there are people on there who will tell you exactly what to do xxx

 

[keepsmiling]

yamo, that is more def illegal!!! they have ti give u a reason 4 the demotion,, ?
xx

 

[lisaf]

yomo - I found this site which is an HR resource for the UK... they have some articles or Q&As that touch on this topic. Interestingly, taking time off for fertility treatments is not the same protection as pregnancy antenatal care, but it can be seen a sex discrimination. More importantly, if you are in any way penalized for perceived future absences for a pregnancy, it is definitely illegal.
https://www.personneltoday.com/articles/2006/09/13/38564/sensitive-pregnancy-issues.html

Try to find a resource/lawyer who can help advise you directly. The best course of action may be to express your concern to HR that this demotion was due to the news being leaked that you are trying to get pregnant. Document all of that (sit down with HR and present them with a letter addressing your concerns). And then see how they respond. Again.. a lawyer may be able to best help you plan how to do this appropriately so that you have the best chance of rectifying the situation at work without pissing everyone off and threatening them with a lawsuit etc. Then, with the lawyer's help, if they do not fix the situation, you will have the data you need to prove the discrimination happened and they did not rectify it.

 

[lisaf]

oh, and your absences for treatment should not be treated any different than a man for elective surgery and recent recommendations are that it be treated like other sick time.
https://www.personneltoday.com/articles/2006/09/13/38564/sensitive-pregnancy-issues.html


Can I say that I'm DEEPLY jealous of the pregnancy leave rights you guys all get, lol?

 

[Onelildream]

Hey girls, I am doing well. Feeling great. Nothing different, except a backache, but my bed SUCKS. I need to get a new one. Also, I am leaving the thread. Well, leaving BnB, really. I am wasting too much time when I should be playing with my kids. I cannot juggle both, as I am consumed at times. I hope you all get your BFPs soon and have happy, healthy pregnancies! I will keep my blog, if any are curious to follow. It's howmanymonths.blogspot.com

Other than that, I am sorry to have been crazy this last week. I'm still trying to get used to these hormones... Sorry, everyone. Love you all tons and tons. Thanks for being such a great support to me. This last month was amazing sharing it with you all.

Oh, and if you wanna be my facebook friend... Rochelle Lambertsen is my name. No one knows I'm preg yet, though, so keep it on the DL. I'll miss you girls!

 

[keepsmiling]

so sorry ur leaving us, but good luck with everything, iv added u on fb hun xx

 

[caz & bob]

aw hun i dont want you to go i have sent you a request on facebook hunnie dont let on that i am ttc ok xxxx

 

[mrphyemma]

Sorry to see you go Onelildream. I wish you all the best with your pregnancy and I will add you on facebook too x

 

[Smile4me]

As I stated on the other thread, I'm sorry to see you go, I know you and I will keep in touch but i really hope you stay, even if you check every two days or so, just to stay in touch with everyone and help lift the spirits of those ttc, we are all in this together.

Yomo hun I am soooo sorrry and that is highly illegal. What were the reasons they stated for demotion? not giving 100%? Do you have it all in writing, how can they decrease your pay? I mean seriously, you can sue and I'm not a sue happy American, I'm just saying fight for what is yours hun!! My prayers and my heart go out ot you sweetie!

TTC did you test?