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[Onelildream]

I know that God is who I turn to in situations like these. I know that He is where I find peace. It is a blessing that Kinley is alive after all the trauma she faced. Somewhere along the line, on that day, someone chose to ignore Cat's pleas...someone deliberately ignored her pain and instincts. I know that God does not punish people or torment them. Poor Kinley's accident was a result of medical negligence. It is heartbreaking what happened. And right now I am thankful for the comfort that we can receive in knowing that we can be eternal families despite what happens in the trials we face on this earth. I know Kinley is loved by God and so are Cat and Aaron. This accident was not His fault. I know that Bad things happen to good people, unfortunately, and that major trials happen in our lives to build our faith. I know that we are loved by a Heavenly Father that knows each one of us, personally, and loves us. I hope that can bring peace to you ladies, as it has brought me peace.

 

[Onelildream]

Can't sleep. I scrabbled everyone I could on fb. Haha. Words with friends at 1230am... And I am still not able to sleep!

 

[SBB]

Morning girls :wave:

I can't stop thinking about Cat and Kinley I still can't believe what's happened...

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Me neither Suz. I've hardly slept all night. Partly because Ben wouldn't sleep and partly because I couldn't even when he did! I can't imagine how Cat is feeling

I was chatting to Casey about it last night on Words With Friends and I said to her that its made me realise just how lucky I was that the hospital were so good when everything went wrong for us. What if the birth centre hadn't believed me when I said something was wrong. By the time I got to hospital I had a fever and Ben's heart rate had dropped- we're so lucky there was a brilliant team there who made everything alright! We got away with stitches and antibiotics for me and a week in Neonatal for Ben. Why the hell couldn't Cat be that lucky!? It's heartbreaking that no one was looking out for her and it all could have been so different if they were. How will she ever get over that thought!?

 

[SBB]

I know lou, I was so lucky too. I was pretty traumatised by my birth, but in comparison it was a walk in the park.
I think one of the hardest things as you say is that kitten was fine, then because no one listened everything went so wrong. It was totally avoidable. Its so sad.

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Have you got any plans today Suz? My mum is off work today and tomorrow so is coming round for the afternoon I think!

 

[SBB]

I am off to a vintage/retro shop to choose something for my birthday - then to M&S to buy a picnic for tomorrow - we are heading up your way to got to Pemberley!! From Pride and Prejudice! It's my 30th tomorrow...

x x x

 

[babyloulou]

Wow is it!!? How exciting!! Hope you fund something lovely for your present! X

 

[SBB]

yep! 30 tomorrow

Only joking I know you're mostly all older than me

x x x

 

[TySonNMe]

Thanks Chell...I've never been very religious, moreso spiritual than anything I guess. It's just so hard to swallow. I figured it was bad, but not this bad. Lesson learned though...I will never back down when it comes to my body and I can only imagine the outcome of my own situation when my appendix exploded at 7 months pregnant...it could have been far, far worse. Somebody up there is watching over us...have been praying for Kinley and Cat every moment I can...

 

[harvey]

can u guys let britt11 no iv prayed hard for her today

im not sure wots happened but i can tell its not good news so please let her no xx

 

[lisaf]

I tried to escape with words with friends last night but the app keeps crashing before I can even open a game

The only way I got to sleep was by listening to podcasts

 

[Onelildream]

My head feels like it's going to explode! I think I have a stress hangover. Seriously. I wish we could just press rewind and fix everything.

Suz-30! yay! I'm 28, but looking forward to 30....hubs promised me a house for my 30th, so now I'm excited, when before I was terrified of 30! haha

 

[kcw81]

hi everyone

chell what is your words with friends name? are we already playing?

Lisa hope you had a nice birthday! if you shut off your ipod completely then words with friends will usually reset. are you playing on the ipod?

 

[lisaf]

I'm playing on the iPad. I tried a shutdown already and it didn't fix it

Darn you Suz for being a few days younger than me! Lol

 

[Smile4me]

I just have no words to describe how terribly sad I am for Cat, Aaron and Kinley.... sorry girls.
I would love to get her something but speaking from experience there is nothing that will make her feel better.
When I lost the twins, I was seriously depressed and in a hospital for a while, they just need prayers but if we can, I would like to send her flowers, not that a flower will make her feel ANY better but just to know the power of our friendship.........

 

[Smile4me]

btw, I'm prob the oldest hen on here

 

[kcw81]

Second oldest!

Gosh I know it's tough I am sure she is getting tons of cards and flowers and is just like wants to throw them away and go lay down in the dark away from people but yeah, to show we do care it seems still appropriate to send something! Should we pool up or just go with individual cards?

 

[lisaf]

I wish we were close enough to bring her a casserole or something, not that I'm sure she is eating much. Anyone think of something we can make her? Maybe a small quilt for Kinley?

 

[kcw81]

oh man I think that would be too sad if she can't use it. good idea though.