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Onelildream
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Ok, ladies. I need your prayers. Seriously. Please please please say a little tiny prayer for us...that house on this hill is back up and we are bidding on it today...but it already has an offer on it, so we are offering the asking price to try to get in first position, but it might not work. I just need a little prayer that our offer will be accepted. PLEASE?! Oh jees, I would be a happy camper if this house became ours!!!
https://www.homefinder.com/UT/Logan/70091926d_1325_E_100
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Onelildream
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hahaha, Suz. Chatty cathy...
Um, I'm not really sure when we would know by. It's a bank owned property, so it actually takes a bit more time than usual. Maybe next week? Maybe in a few weeks? Ugh. I am SOOO not good at the waiting game!
Um, I'm not really sure when we would know by. It's a bank owned property, so it actually takes a bit more time than usual. Maybe next week? Maybe in a few weeks? Ugh. I am SOOO not good at the waiting game!
Onelildream
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Um, I'm afraid I have prostituted myself for the house. 
Hubs said he would do everything in his power to get me that house....then asked what he would get in return... I said,
idk, sex for a year? lol.
He said, SOLD.
If we do get the house, I will be committing to a very rigorous time/exercise schedule!
Hubs said he would do everything in his power to get me that house....then asked what he would get in return... I said,
idk, sex for a year? lol.He said, SOLD.
If we do get the house, I will be committing to a very rigorous time/exercise schedule!
Onelildream
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No I mean sex EVERY DAY for a year. He's had his eyes on that since I brought up an oprah show a few years ago... a woman gave her husband sex for a year for his birthday..and it made their relationship amazing...forced to spend that time together every day. Its really only 3 days a week more than we already do, so what the heck, right?! hahaha. And he would be on cloud nine, so I could get whatever I wanted with the house. hahahhaahaha
He's had his eyes on that since I brought up an oprah show a few years ago... a woman gave her husband sex for a year for his birthday..and it made their relationship amazing...forced to spend that time together every day. Its really only 3 days a week more than we already do, so what the heck, right?! hahaha. And he would be on cloud nine, so I could get whatever I wanted with the house. hahahhaahaha
laura6914
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Hey girls. Thanks for asking about me suz.
I haven't been on in a while so haven't read back. I hope your all well.
Still pregnant, anemic and exhausted with a chest infection. Not great. :sad:
Shae is 1 in exactly a month I can't believe it. I'm throwing him a little party at the house. Nothing too big.
So how are we all x x
I haven't been on in a while so haven't read back. I hope your all well.
Still pregnant, anemic and exhausted with a chest infection. Not great. :sad:
Shae is 1 in exactly a month I can't believe it. I'm throwing him a little party at the house. Nothing too big.
So how are we all x x
Onelildream
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Laura sorry bout the chest infection! Sad! Must be exhausting!
Papers in. Fingers crossed.
Papers in. Fingers crossed.
Peach Blossom
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Hey ladies.
Suz and lou love the photos of your gorgeous boys.
Lou, that "friend" is bonkers. What a weirdo!!
Verna, glad you're ok.
Chell, I have everything crossed for you! you and your oh dtd 4 times a week?! Man I'm lucky if I get that a month!!
Lisa, sorry you have SIL/childcare stresses again. Do what you feel is right and what you think is best for Daniel. And your friend with the 6 month old who only weighed 11lbs... Lili wasnt even that!
she could lift her head though... Although that took forever!!! So unfair that doctors make you feel that you're doing something wrong when your baby is small.
I'm in Oxford with my mum overnight. Joe is in Sweden. I text him on Thurs telling him that when he came back I needed to talk to him about going to the doctors... I said I needed him there in mind and body. He replied that he thought he knew why I gone and that I should ask his mum for help. He text later saying he'd transferred some money into our joint account to get anything that helped, takeaway or cleaners or something. I appreciate the sentiment. And I know he's making an effort. But it's not about that. And part of me thinks if he knew why I went to the doctors why the he'll didn't he ask me about it... Anyway rant over. I'll talk to him when he's back.
Suz and lou love the photos of your gorgeous boys.
Lou, that "friend" is bonkers. What a weirdo!!
Verna, glad you're ok.
Chell, I have everything crossed for you!
you and your oh dtd 4 times a week?! Man I'm lucky if I get that a month!! Lisa, sorry you have SIL/childcare stresses again. Do what you feel is right and what you think is best for Daniel. And your friend with the 6 month old who only weighed 11lbs... Lili wasnt even that!
she could lift her head though... Although that took forever!!! So unfair that doctors make you feel that you're doing something wrong when your baby is small. I'm in Oxford with my mum overnight. Joe is in Sweden. I text him on Thurs telling him that when he came back I needed to talk to him about going to the doctors... I said I needed him there in mind and body. He replied that he thought he knew why I gone and that I should ask his mum for help. He text later saying he'd transferred some money into our joint account to get anything that helped, takeaway or cleaners or something. I appreciate the sentiment. And I know he's making an effort. But it's not about that. And part of me thinks if he knew why I went to the doctors why the he'll didn't he ask me about it... Anyway rant over. I'll talk to him when he's back.
lisaf
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aw, anemia leaves you so weak! hope they get your iron levels up soon!
FX'd Chell... I know DH wouldn't want sex every day for a WEEK let alone a year I'm one lucky girl. I truly wish my sex drive was higher but I dont' know how to make that happen. we've only had sex twice since Daniel was born. Once I felt kind of pressured into it and was uncomfortable, the next time I initiated it and it was fantastic but I have no desire for more. UGH, I feel so bad for him! Poor guy asked me a while back if I just found him unattractive or something? How can he say that? I'M the one who is supposed to be undesireable after having a kid and nursing etc, lol!
And Chell, you are totally right about the conflicts that could come up. I can imagine it turning into some big drama with resentments and hurt feelings and grudges. Right now I'm sticking with the excuse that Daniel is so happy there... figure they can't argue with that, right? if they want to do something that would make Daniel unhappy then she's a bad auntie, lol!
I also think its kind of wrong if she wants to make some money while on disability. I know people who NEED to be on disability who can't get approved. Yet she's drawing disability pay and wants to make extra on the side but not claim it? Kind of wrong, you know?
FX'd Chell... I know DH wouldn't want sex every day for a WEEK let alone a year
I'm one lucky girl. I truly wish my sex drive was higher but I dont' know how to make that happen. we've only had sex twice since Daniel was born. Once I felt kind of pressured into it and was uncomfortable, the next time I initiated it and it was fantastic but I have no desire for more. UGH, I feel so bad for him! Poor guy asked me a while back if I just found him unattractive or something? How can he say that? I'M the one who is supposed to be undesireable after having a kid and nursing etc, lol!And Chell, you are totally right about the conflicts that could come up. I can imagine it turning into some big drama with resentments and hurt feelings and grudges. Right now I'm sticking with the excuse that Daniel is so happy there... figure they can't argue with that, right? if they want to do something that would make Daniel unhappy then she's a bad auntie, lol!
I also think its kind of wrong if she wants to make some money while on disability. I know people who NEED to be on disability who can't get approved. Yet she's drawing disability pay and wants to make extra on the side but not claim it? Kind of wrong, you know?
lisaf
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OOH, hey, I'm an elite too!!, lol!
aw Jess, hope the talk goes better when he's back. I know its not about the money, but it is a gesture that he wants to do something to take some of the stress off of you and that he is trying to be supportive. He might not have asked about the doctor's appointment because he figured if you wanted to talk about it, you would. I know my DH doesn't ask how my depression is going... I realized that last night when I was talking to him that I needed to communicate with him how it was. Thats when I told him that times when I'm stressed it gets worse, hopefully now he'll be aware that I'll need extra support/TLC when times are stressful.
It sounds like he doesn't know how to help. When he gets back, get specific (guys often need to be told exactly what to do). If you need more help with Lili, then divide up the tasks.. if he's going to be away on trips, set up a plan for support for you while he's gone and have him do some extra stuff before he leaves and when he's back to give you a bit of a break etc. Whatever works for you guys.
aw Jess, hope the talk goes better when he's back. I know its not about the money, but it is a gesture that he wants to do something to take some of the stress off of you and that he is trying to be supportive. He might not have asked about the doctor's appointment because he figured if you wanted to talk about it, you would. I know my DH doesn't ask how my depression is going... I realized that last night when I was talking to him that I needed to communicate with him how it was. Thats when I told him that times when I'm stressed it gets worse, hopefully now he'll be aware that I'll need extra support/TLC when times are stressful.
It sounds like he doesn't know how to help. When he gets back, get specific (guys often need to be told exactly what to do). If you need more help with Lili, then divide up the tasks.. if he's going to be away on trips, set up a plan for support for you while he's gone and have him do some extra stuff before he leaves and when he's back to give you a bit of a break etc. Whatever works for you guys.
lisaf
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Suz!!! I need your help/advice!
I got my main package of cloth diapers. I have some cotton inserts, some microfiber, and some hemp. Do I need to prep them in separate washes? Can I combine the cotton and microfiber at least? I think I read that somewhere? Do I just need to do the first wash separate or all the prep washes? If I prep them separate and want to use an extra towel in the wash to make it heavier for my front-loader, can I use the same towel? Should I prep the microfiber/cotton with the towel first?
Do I have to dry them each time during the prep? Or can I just wash several times in a row?
My other package isn't here yet, it may not arrive until later in the week. I'm thinking of prepping the stuff I have tomorrow anyway.
I'm getting 1 bamboo and 1 microfiber later... will it be a huge pain to prep those separate? Will I have to wash the bamboo separate from the other fibers?
Sorry for all the questions, hope you can help!
I got my main package of cloth diapers. I have some cotton inserts, some microfiber, and some hemp. Do I need to prep them in separate washes? Can I combine the cotton and microfiber at least? I think I read that somewhere? Do I just need to do the first wash separate or all the prep washes? If I prep them separate and want to use an extra towel in the wash to make it heavier for my front-loader, can I use the same towel? Should I prep the microfiber/cotton with the towel first?
Do I have to dry them each time during the prep? Or can I just wash several times in a row?
My other package isn't here yet, it may not arrive until later in the week. I'm thinking of prepping the stuff I have tomorrow anyway.
I'm getting 1 bamboo and 1 microfiber later... will it be a huge pain to prep those separate? Will I have to wash the bamboo separate from the other fibers?
Sorry for all the questions, hope you can help!
Onelildream
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Lisa- I totally agree. Esp about the disability checks! I mean, our economy is tanking/ has tanked. Gov money should be used honestly.
lisaf
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yeah, my co-worker's friend is totally screwed right now too. She hurt her back on a job, got workers comp benefits for surgery etc... she can't work right now but he doc says she is still capable of working. She just has to find a job that doesn't require her to sit for more than 2 hours, stand for more than 2 hours, or do any repetitive tasks with her right hand.
She can't get disability because her doctor says she can work, she can't get unemployment because the workplace she got injured on still hasn't 'terminated' their work relationship. She doesn't qualify for welfare either.. so she's basically totally screwed.
She found a place that would hire her to do filing, but when they saw that she couldn't do repetitive tasks with her right arm, they refused. She swore she'd only file with her left arm and they still wouldn't take on the risk.
She can't get disability because her doctor says she can work, she can't get unemployment because the workplace she got injured on still hasn't 'terminated' their work relationship. She doesn't qualify for welfare either.. so she's basically totally screwed.
She found a place that would hire her to do filing, but when they saw that she couldn't do repetitive tasks with her right arm, they refused. She swore she'd only file with her left arm and they still wouldn't take on the risk.
