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[Onelildream]

Lou-Sorry, I didn't mean no one else has ever called her that, I just meant that's the first time I have ever typed that! I usually just write KC.

I'm an IDIOT. I was just over at my neighbors house and she told me she was preg, hasn't told anyone, and to keep it a secret...a few mins later her sister comes over and her son says MOOOOOVE out of the way to my son, and I say "you just wait till u have a sibling to pick on you soon" I didn't mean to spill her beans, I just meant it differently, but now I feel super guilty...Maybe her sis didn't even know they were trying?! I'm a dope. so stupid some times.

 

[Onelildream]

Lou Suz-Super cute videos. SWOON

 

[kcw81]

Haha chell! Oh well it's all gOnna come out anyway as it's impossible to keep it a secret too long, espec to family! Plus I am sure her sister knew they were ttc! What'd they say?

 

[kcw81]

Great vids suz and Lou! Love it! Suz it's funny to watch S and the drawers he pulls out. Jimmy is obsessed with the drawers and emptying everything out. Hence the clutter. I do let him explore at this point so he can learn but eventually it's all drawers babyproofed and saying "no" to emptying shit onto the floor!

 

[lisaf]

Just installed our Radian seat! I found it super easy and it is in there SO securely!
It does make the passenger seat a little shorter than I like, but its usable. I just have to make sure my carpool friend can fit there comfortably since she's pretty big and has back issues.
I'm really happy with the purchase! Did you get yours fitted in Casey?

 

[lisaf]

ok, I tried the videos again now that I'm on my home computer and all it does is play the audio? I'm sad I can't see them

 

[kcw81]

It's cute hearing suz and Lou, they always go "cleva boy!"

I love the seat Lisa! It's really frickin sturdy! I mean it's heavier than crap and it's narrow and simple, which I like. We dont use the extra infant pillows at all. I did not get it checked but it looks fine. It's too hard to get to a safety check fair, they only do them like once a month and the location varies. Jimmy hates rear facing so he doesn't like the chair too much but he will get over that soon when he can talk and comprehend things a little better so he Is easier to entertain back there. Now if you give him a toy he just throws it to the side.

 

[lisaf]

Daniel usually entertains himself if I give him a toy. I have the ones for the carseat that are meant to velcro around the handle. I just velcro it to the straps instead Though I don't know if they would entertain Daniel when he's Jimmy's age, lol!
I really like how sturdy the seat is too! I can't wait to get rid of the 'bucket' infant seat So tired of lifting him into it!

 

[megs79]

Oh my goodness you girls are chatty!! So are you having probs with Ben's sleeping Lou? Although generally we've been lucky with F, it all went a bit downhill from 9 months... a friend recently told me about the 'pick up put down method' (PUPD) - I think it's from one of the books but she just told me how to do it. After a truly awful weekend I decided to go for it. The first night was awful, the second and third were bad, and then it was plain sailing from there! She slept through on the 5th night and last night (the 8th night) which was a total shock (in a good way!) - I expect you've heard of it / tried it but you just pick baby up as soon as cried, wait until stops crying with a bit of sssgging and patting (but nothing else), then the second they stop crying, put back in the cot. It seems completely ridiculous at 1st as you're up and down like a jackinthebox (I've still got backache!) but it totally worked for us! The first night and then the next day for her nap I pup'd about 150 times. I think the point is to get them used to self settling a bit more gently than controlled crying or whatever and they feel confident you won't abandon them and will give comfort when they need it. The put down when she doesn't cry is always quite sudden (it looks like it's not working then suddenly it does) Then last night I just put her in the cot and she was fine straight away... of course, it might just be a good patch! And I'm sure you've heard of it before but just thought would pass on just in case! xxx

 

[megs79]

I meant ssshhhing not sssggging!

 

[babyloulou]

We have tried it but not properly and kept it up. I think PUPD is what we are going to go with again once his cold is better xx

Jess- what time is your appointment? X

 

[Euronova]

Jess- I am nervous for you today! I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel. Is someone going to look after Lilli for you?

I have loads of work to do today and want to go to the gym.... if I managed to get out of bed before 10 am it might help (sorry Lou! )

Booking my scan today, just need to check when OH can come with me!!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Appt is at 8 tonight. I told Joe that his indifference was completely unbearable last night. Why he thinks its easier to talk to me with someone else in the room I don't know... I feel sick...

 

[babyloulou]

I hope he opens up Jess

 

[SBB]

Jess his behaviour is extremely odd! Does he know someone who's been to counselling or anything?

I feel really low today sorry Jess you still win for worst problems!

I haven't done any work on the website for a week so I just feel like it's going nowhere. I need to be doing stuff on it all the time or I feel like it's come to a standstill!

Boohoo.

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

I'm feeling shit today too Suz. Ste has had the afternoon off to give me a break. He's taking Ben to watch the dog at hydrotherapy so I can have a bath and a lie down. One Ben's cold has gone we're going all out on PUPD!

Do you your inlaws still watch S so you can work on the website?

 

[Euronova]

god ladies you are all so brave... i don't even have a child to look after and I feel completely useless. I have to get all the accounts ready for our year end (promised them end of September to the accountant)
Just so freaking behind everything... i think i am going to stop my photo course until i am feeling more on top of things... i just can't make myself sick over this... I really want to go to the gym today to try and see if it will make me feel better, but I am so behind everything else!!

Finally booked my scan for the 13th of December (as early as they would let me )

Jess - his attitude is REALLY odd... i really wonder what will happen tonight... all crossed for you x

 

[SBB]

Aw Lou there's nothing wrong with PUPD... You've got no othe choice!! He knows you're there for him and come to him when he's upset, so don't be sad about it. I'm glad ste is giving you a little break, try and have a nice relaxing time....

I'm sure if you're strict with the PUPD its got to work a bit at least!

V don't take on too much, if you want to drop something for a bit don't stress about it. Pregnancy is quite hard work! You might feel that 2nd tri you feel much more energetic.

I had Another pregnancy dream last night, I was suddenly 6 months pregnant, no bump, just had a scan and there it was! Could feel it kicking and stuff...
Weird! I haven't poas for a while (about 2 weeks ) so maybe its time again!!

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Ha ha Suz!! Have you actually still got a stash of hpts tucked away??

 

[kcw81]

Hi girls!

Suz sorry u r low. I wouldn't know u haven't done anything on the mb site, i get updates all the time and it makes me think u r sitting their busy with it all the time! Don't be so hard on yrself - u r doing great at it! Have u many sales?

Jess good luck tonight. Hope u get a decent counselor.

Hi Lou get some sleep while they go! Hope u can.

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