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[Euronova]

What I find the most shocking is that he has made you wait for this meeting just for that, that he has lived there next to you, seen your anguish and chosen not to face the situation but tell you about this in front of a complete stranger....
I don't know how you manage not to kick him out, how you can let him be there...
I have never heard of anyone being so coward and horrible and you do not deserve that.
I personally believe he has a full blown relationship with her and she is prob leaving her husband too... you don't just give up on your family if you haven't go the promise of something else.
What a selfish *******, doing that to you but also to your beautiful daughter....

I am really gutted for you, I just can't believe after your letter and the video and everything that he has been able to sat there for days knowing too well what he was going to say..... I hope I never bump into him in London!

 

[Euronova]

wow I didn't know we were censored on here... I meant selfish bast*rd

 

[Euronova]

I used to have to find email addresses of people we tried to target for advertising (like the really high end people in companies), if you get stuck let me know.

 

[babyloulou]

PM me her Facebook link Jess xx

 

[Onelildream]

lol, isn't Chell our resident sleuth?

Hey, Jess... I can dig deep.


I don't understand....Why did he say this all in front of a counselor? I think that makes him a selfish, sheepish coward.

 

[Euronova]

Jess I think it's time for a big snoop! Phone, email, credit card receipt, you've got to find out the extend of his betrayal!
That will be stuff to tell the husband too!

 

[babyloulou]

I agree with V Jess- he hasn't treated you with the respect you deserve so stop treating him with it! Find out what's been happening with her

 

[kcw81]

Oh jeez Jess I am so sorry. It's not fair. He better pay and make sure you and lilli are comfortable as you prob are gonna keep bearing most of the child raising. What a total jerk and horrible father and heartless guy.

 

[Onelildream]

Agreed. I would find out all u can. It's not snooping when you are married!!!

 

[Onelildream]

Question: is it pompous if on our Christmas card I have our Incredibles pic from Halloween and say, "From one INCREDIBLE family to another" or "From our INCREDIBLE family to yours" or something like that? Which sounds better?

 

[lisaf]

I don't think its pomopous at all Will all your recipients get the reference though? Not everyone has heard of the movie.
I think either way of saying it is cute.. the 2nd just sounds a little better grammatically to me.

 

[kcw81]

Chell u r such a hokey cheesepuff! That's darling and funny! the incredibles idea. From one incredible family, love it.

Jess did u sleep?

 

[Onelildream]

Ok so our offer was countered. I still just feel so uneasy about it. I mean, yeah it's almost 3000 sq ft, but it needs about 30k in renovations at least, and it's ugly! I just want to cry. Hubs doesn't get it. Space is space, he thinks, and once renovated it will be a gem. Yeah, I'll say, like a pearl inside a nasty oyster shell!

Oh can someone remember the movie on netflix I need to watch about an online liar that we talked about once.. Sounds intriguing! Oh I'm watching an awesome show lately called the colony. Have u seen it?

 

[Peach Blossom]

Oh Chell, don't ever apologise for being happy and showing off your beautiful kids. Through all of you ladies sharing your lives with me I feel so blessed. I love you all. Xxxx and regardingte Christmas card HELL YEAH! Do it do it do it. You are an incredible family. xxx

I managed to get some sleep. Joe came to bed and asked if he could hug me. I fell asleep with his arms around me. I dreamt of him making love to me. last night we talked some more. I told him my ultimatum still stood, but he told me he wasn't prepared not to have her in his life. Think that says it all really. I spoke to him briefly this morning. He was saying we should get a radiator for our extension bit of the living room whic is where Lili's play mat is. I told him there wasn't much point if we weren't going to be there. He replied that he wouldn't expect me not to stay in the flat, but I pointed out to him that I couldn't afford it on my own. So much to think about practically....

 

[Peach Blossom]

I trust you ladies and know you won't do anything to get me in to trouble. Joe would walk and never come back if he knew I'd told all of you. Xx

 

[SBB]

Morning Jess

I am glad he finally showed some emotion and gave you a hug.... I can't believe what a coward he is. Is he even sorry?

Does he not see that this is ridiculous, she's 12 years younger than him, and married. Even if they get together it's never going to last and he'll have thrown everything away.

Do his parents know yet?

I know you don't want to think about the money side of things now, but I think you should demand everything. The flat, the car and money for lili. He owes you. I know you're sad now but there may come a time when you're just plain angry and wish you'd got more financially... He ought tO agree to whatever you want after what he's done.

x x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

To be honest with you Suz, I think he wouldn't even think about not giving me all those things... I don't think I could stay in that flat though... the flat we bought and did up together... it would be too painful. I've had a look this morning and there are some nice flats near where my dad lives. That would help with childcare and things.

There are 2 issues that apparently aren't connected. He doesn't know if he wants to be with me full stop regardless of anyone else being involved. He also doesn't know if he wants to be with her or me... Last night he admitted that the last time we split up it was beacuse he feelings for someone else. I knew that he had slept with someone, but I had always believed it was after we split. He never mentioned her whilst we were breaking up. I just don't know what I want anymore...

 

[SBB]

Take some time, hopefully over a few days/weeks it will all become clearer.

I can't believe he won't give up this trip with her. Even if he still sees her at some point, he could at least have the decency to wait a while.

Has he had serious relationships before you? Seems commitment isn't really his thing

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

No, no serious or long term girlfriends before me. His parents split when he was very young and his Mum never got over it. She's never had another partner and his Dad has had one disasterous relationship after the other.

He said that if he stopped working for the company she works at then he would resent me. He understands that I can't let him go away with her, but he's not willing to make the sacrifice... I don't know when they're supposed to be going away together again... I don't think it's until the new year, but he has had contact with her even though I asked him not to. He is a fool and an idiot and I am so so angry.

 

[babyloulou]

He's being so selfish Jess. I know it's easy for us to say but I think you know deep down that you deserve so much better! I would ask him to leave- it's not fair of him to say the things he said, still see her and then come to bed and cuddle you!