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[Peach Blossom]

Great news on Ben's hearing! DO WE NEED TO SHOUT AT YOU FROM NOW ON THEN?!! xx

He's said that he's going to see a therapist and try to work out what he wants and what is wrong... I don't know what that means really... At the moment I think he is expecting to stay in the flat for now. I don't know about him seeing/working/being in touch with her though! I've told him I want him in the flat to see what he will be throwing away...

 

[Peach Blossom]

Sorry about the eczema Lou. Maybe you should book in to go and see my Dad. I'm sure he'd bump you up the waiting list. x

 

[babyloulou]

Look this is the top of my boob- it's even worse around my nipple and underneath them!! (and it's back on the tops of my thighs, on my lady bits and on my hands!)


https://i128.photobucket.com/albums/p170/louise540056/2011/October%202011/a04ba131.jpg

 

[babyloulou]

Great news on Ben's hearing! DO WE NEED TO SHOUT AT YOU FROM NOW ON THEN?!! xx

Do I need to tell you how many times I've heard that joke......

Jess- it sounds like he's keeping you hanging on while still refusing to stop seeing her!! I would say "fine- you want to stay in the flat and see a therapist- that's fine by me- but I don't want you seeing or talking to her again while you're 'figuring it out'- if you don't like it then fuck off!!!!"

 

[Euronova]

The eczema sound nasty... poor you

You are so brave Jess, i don't think I would be able to have him there under my nose when all this is going on.... You are far too good to him...

 

[babyloulou]

God she's all over the bloody Internet Jess! And no where near as attractive as I was expecting either! You're miles prettier than her!!

 

[babyloulou]

Well I've found her email address but I take it is her husband's you want??

 

[Peach Blossom]

Yeah, I have hers... all three of them!

 

[Peach Blossom]

I think he's having a long and hard think today. I might get some answers....

 

[Peach Blossom]

I think until you stop breastfeeding Lou then the stuff that will make you feel better with the eczema isn't safe...

 

[SBB]

Lou that sucks about your hearing but hopefully by the time it gets worse there might be something you can have done about it... 

Jess I agree that he's getting it all too easy, see what he says later but I don't think you can have him living there, and seeing her. It might actually Do him good not to be there... He might realise what he's missing. Since he's been in the flat all this time it hadn't made him want to stay, maybe not being there would?

I looked her up too... Jess you are definitely much prettier!

X x x

 

[SBB]

The ezcema is horrendous! I don't know how you're putting up with that

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

Aw thank you girls.

 

[Euronova]

yep saw her too, she has a weasel face! she definitely doesn't look like someone you'd trust... as soon as she will have had enough of Joe.. she will pass onto the next one...
He will so regret it all, there is no way he is making the right decision... but I think you will be much better off without him, and you will find someone decent that will know how much you and your daughter mean to them!
I can't believe how ungrateful he is, did your struggle to conceive not make him appreciate what he got???
Is he even mentioning Lili in all this? It seems all that matters is the fact, he can't feel resentful or can't make sacrifices... what about the sacrifices you make EVERYDAY when you are a mum!! ARRRGGG

 

[SBB]

Weasel face

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

He doesn't talk about Lili in all this. I say to him "you'll be leaving Lili too" and he just says "I know"... I made a huge scrifice 4 years ago when I decided to leave working in the actual theatre and in to the office... But I did that for the sake of our relationship and so that we could start a family... I shouldn't have bothered!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Weasel face

X x x

 

[Euronova]

I'm sure you don't mean that, Lili seems so precious, you have her and I am sure she is worth every sacrifice. He will have no-one. With an attitude like that it doesn't even sound like he would keep being involved.
He will never be happy in life, no matter how many wife he ends up having, but YOU know the true value of life!

 

[Peach Blossom]

I meant I shouldn't have bothered doing it for his sake... I could never ever regret having Lili in my life... I've wanted a baby for so so long...

 

[kcw81]

Oh Jess i am so sorry about all this. I can't imagine how hard it must be and how scary. I hate not knowing what the F is going to happen in my life , I hate change and unknowns and right now there are a lot of those in your life. Are u managing? Are u able to work and do the day to day stuff or are u a wreck and crying all the time? I'd have to go into denial to cope I think! I am glad u feel confident he will give you lots of financial support. Hugs Jess and hugs to lilli. Weird that he wanted to hug u all night. Was that to give u hope? Do u have hope?