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[Peach Blossom]

He keeps saying that he doesn't want to do or say anything to give me false hope. I told him not to censor himself and to do and say what came naturally. He's not going to make me think everything is all ok with a hug... I think that's why he held me. Because despite what is going on I am the closest person to him and the only one that can comfort him.. At least that is my theory.

I'm getting on with things at work. No one would know what is going on. I'm a great actress when I need to be!

 

[kcw81]

well if I got hugged all night I would have a hard time thinking it was over. Oh poor Joe looking for comfort. geez Louise give me a break! He is so not doing things properly! Ha . Like there's a proper way to do it right. So sorry Jess.

Chell it was catfish, the movie. It's good,

 

[Peach Blossom]

Don't take Lou's name in vain... she'll get the guns!! xx

 

[lisaf]

aw Jess, this is all so frustrating and confusing I agree with Suz though that having him move out will show him what he's missing more than if he stays there.
But I understand why you're having him stay for now too. Things like the hug last night shows that he may need to realize that he benefits from this relationship in many ways, including having you there to comfort him. Its hard to reconnect when you are far apart (though it would also force you to appreciate your time together instead of taking it for granted). I'm just so confused for you and don't know what to advise

I'm not a big fan of kicking someone out and then letting them move back in again etc. I think its not good for the kids and also sets up a pattern that you can leave and come back again and makes it seem less serious when you are really done and want them gone.

I really do wonder what is going on in his head, with him repeating his dad's pattern he certainly has some issues!

 

[babyloulou]

What has he been in therapy for in the past Jess? X

 

[Peach Blossom]

Breaking up with me...

 

[lisaf]

yup, a guy would HAVE to be crazy to break up with you Jess!

 

[Peach Blossom]

He broke up with me and didn't really understand why... just knew there was something wrong... yeah, him, in the head!

 

[babyloulou]

(secret blank post!! )

 

[Euronova]

He sounds really messed up! I guess his dad's behaviour must have something to do with it. But I guess the industry you work in doesn't help either....
He doesn't deserve you or Lili, no matter how messed up he is, he seems like he is milking the sympathy, it's not fair on you

 

[lisaf]

hey girls, maybe we should move the investigation over to the facebook group? I don't want to get in trouble with BnB

 

[babyloulou]

Good thinking- Jess go back and delete your bit where you named them and I'll delete the link xx

 

[babyloulou]

(once I know you've seen it xx)

 

[Peach Blossom]

Ok, I've seen it... will go back and delete. Love you girls xx

 

[babyloulou]

Could you see the profile? X

 

[Peach Blossom]

not really... it's the mobile site. It says I have to sign in, but I am signed in... Now I know what he looks like though I could probably find him.

 

[babyloulou]

I'll PM you the full site link xx

 

[SBB]

Pm me too! I've missed it!

X x x

 

[Onelildream]

Lou- pm me too. I'm so lost.

So, I bawled all morning about the house and was throwing up. Clearly, I do not handle stress well. I just think that house is so ugly that it would take years to renovate and make things look nice inside, but at what expense? (not talking $ here, even though that weighs heavily in my mind) but emotionally could I handle being somewhere that I think is sooo ugly?! Anyway, we are pulling our offer and offering on the house by my parents. I am telling hubs as soon as we make it cute and start to outgrow it, it's going up on the market. I can do anything for a few years....just not renovate for years....with 3 small children.

 

[kcw81]

I am so sorry chell, hugs. I don't know what to say, you want the dream house but you can't afford it! what can you do? just stay where you are at!!!

Jimmy is posessed by something really awful. could be teething, could be headache or slightly sick but he is a different baby these past two days. needs to be carried at all times and is not happy if I even think of leaving for a sec or putting him down. the only way I can type this is that I gave him a cracker. he does have two teeth coming up top but he didn't do this for the other two teeth. I hope its just a phase!! he isn't even happy with my full attention for very long, we will be sitting there having a bit of fun playing with some object and then all a sudden he clouds over as if he just remembered he is possessed. Poor guy! he is crying alot. still sleeping okay but I bet he is worn out from crying and being upset all day!