Clomid Club Graduate Buddies

[lisaf]

Spoiler

We could just write everything in spoilers? lol Though all they'd have to do is create a log-in then they could see them I think?
The FB group would be more private I guess then?

As for the solicitor/$ thing. Might it be possible to hold onto that money to treat yourself when this is all over? Either as a romantic get-away if you guys do work things out or as a celebration of freedom for you if you guys split? (I know the working things out is unlikely if not impossible). You do have to take care of yourself though. So if you need the vacation now, take it... if you need the vacation in the middle of a nasty divorce, then take it then, etc...

 

[SBB]

Jess the guy is cute! Meet him

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[Peach Blossom]

I think you're right Lisa... I just feel like I need to get away or at least not be here... May be I should go to France with my Mum... Or Cornwall with my dad... I just felt like escaping... Hey! Maybe I'll come and stay with you!

 

[SBB]

Yeh I don't think everything on fb would work... Its not as easy to read on a phone and we can't do this

Maybe we could just spoiler private stuff...

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[Peach Blossom]

I emailed his Suz... I guess we'll have to wait and see if he gets back to me... I'm playing it cool... He sent the photo on Sunday, and I only just emailed him... So he'll probably not respond til Friday! That's how it works isn't it?!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Lou could make the group closed I think... but then Newbies like V wouldn't be able to find us!

 

[SBB]

What does closing it actually do? I'll read what it means... Cos I've accidentally clicked on a closed group before and been able to see it all... But obv I didn't try and post!

Haha I'm not sure how it works... I've never played by the 'rules'

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[babyloulou]

Does that mean people can't read it though? I just thought it meant it closed it completely so we couldn't post either? I'll go and have a look what it means.. I bet newbies could still PM to be let in or something?? I'll go look...

 

[Peach Blossom]

I've just transferred all our joint savings in to Lili's savings account... Just in case there is any dispute... it's her money now so he can't have any of it!!

 

[SBB]

I can't find what it actually means?! Lou try closin it and we'll see if it makes a difference and I'll log out and see if I can read posts..

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[SBB]

Great idea Jess!

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[lisaf]

does closed really make us private? I wonder how many people regularly stalk us, lol

A getaway sounds like a great idea regardless Jess I'm not against having people come stay but my house is TINY and crowded (only one bathroom too), its not baby proofed at all (I'm a bad mommy!)... and my husband is a huge grumpy pain in the ass I love him but boy is he a grumpy old man a lot of the time. He would find it really stressful.
Also, the guest room is the cat litter box room, lol.. feel bad about that for any guests we have, but its the only place we can block the dog from going!

We heard there is a mobile home for sale in his mom's park. Its a great park (not sure how I feel about living so close to her though honestly). You guys will probably shit yourselves at the price... $219k for a mobile home, lol! But that is more than $100k cheaper than the last one we saw up for sale. The lot is a corner lot with a bit of a yard, I believe you own the land.. there are park fees but they're very low compared to other parks in the area and its one of the few ones that don't have an age restriction. I actually sent out an online request for mortgage options to see if we'd qualify or if its affordable. I do think for another $50k we could take out the old trailer and get a new one put up which would be very nice...
Considering that the house down the street from me that was condemned sold for $450k we aren't going to be able to afford to buy any time soon. And once we get kicked out of this house in a year or two, we won't be able to afford to rent anywhere that will let us have our pets (we'd be breaking the park rules by having 3 cats and a dog, but the cats would be indoor-only so I don't think they'd ever find out or hassle us).

 

[SBB]

Lisa that doesn't seem hideously expensive really... It's a lot cheaper than a house!

And I think Jess was joking about coming to stay

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[Peach Blossom]

Yeah, Lisa, don't worry, I won't turn up on your doorstep... I've used all my search credits finding the b**ch Joe's been having it away with, so I don't have any left to stalk and find you!

Suz, he emailed back! Meeting for coffee not this weekend, but next. Little bit excited! I better get primping!!

 

[SBB]

Go Jess!!! I'm excited

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[babyloulou]

Yay Jess

Lisa- I don't recommend moving that close to your MIL with how you already feel about her!!

 

[babyloulou]

Right I've closed the thread. Someone log out and check...

I don't understand what it does cos I've just checked another closed thread and it would let me post on it

 

[Euronova]

Jess that's exciting! I knew they'd be queuing!

 

[SBB]

I'll log out and check!

How is Ben
Tonight?


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[SBB]

I could still see it... It seems like the open or closed thing is just so people who've found a buddy can say they don't want any more!!

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