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[Peach Blossom]

When Lili was really poorly on the flight to Hong Kong she didn't have a wet nappy for 24 hours... just try to get fluids in to them as and when you can. A little and often. I practically held a bottle in Lili's mouth for the whole 13 hour flight!

 

[babyloulou]

God I feel terrible! I feel bad thinking this is how Ben must have been feeling! My legs ache, I feel sea sick, ive got really painful stomach cramps, my head hurts- it's horrible!!

 

[Peach Blossom]

oh Lou, you poor thing. Take it easy! xx

 

[Peach Blossom]

AF is here again... Before Lili I used to have spotting for days and really really painful cramps... Now I'm surprised every time she arrives and am never prepared!! WTF?!

 

[SBB]

That's goo eh Jess?!

Lou I'm sorry you feel so awful are you going to take him in? Sammuel has has boob but he's not sucking fully it often doesn't cause let down.. If I give him water he takes a sip and chucks the beaker!

X x x

 

[SBB]

Jess what's your fb status about a busy few years??

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Suz- Ben hardly ever causes let down on me anymore! Only if he's starving! The rest of the time he just slowly feeds for an hour!

I can't take him at the minute cos I can't stop being sick

 

[SBB]

Aw lou I feel so sorry for you all!! Yuck...

S always use to cause let down, just this last week he hasn't...

X x x

 

[lisaf]

poor sick babies
Sorry you're sick now too Lou, when I had that 24hr bug I was feeling like such shit I don't know how single mothers do it!

Jess - BFing is really important to me. I worked SO hard at it and it only just got easy. I'm not totally stressing about it right now, there are just some things I need to try and I'm pretty sure it will work since I had an oversupply issue for so long.

 

[babyloulou]

He might just be feeding lazier because he's ill Suz!? Ben's always been a lazy feeder!!!

 

[SBB]

Yeh I think that's probably it...

Docs at 5.10...

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

We had a company meeting at work this morning and it looks like we're doing 6 new shows in 2 years! Very exciting!

Yeah, it's good about AF! Just wish she would surprise me every month! I like a little warning!

Let us know how the doctors goes.

xxx

 

[lisaf]

good luck at the doctor's Suz

What kind of shows does your work do, Jess?

 

[Peach Blossom]

Big west end musicals. Sister act, hairspray, Singin in the rain... Fun, but hard work!!

Suz, how'd it go?

On my way home... Joe has booked a counselling session for tonight. I feel sick. I just don't think I can hear him say he doesn't want to be with me over and over again.

 

[babyloulou]

Aww Jess I hope you get some answers darling

 

[lisaf]

does the counselor direct the discussion at all? Could you ask that maybe you guys talk about what you want to get out of counseling.. mention your concern that he's just doing counseling to prove that he 'tried' even though he seems like he's already done?
Don't let him do all the talking And heck, when he says something that hurts your feelings, say that it hurts to hear that.

 

[Peach Blossom]

I'm not sure how the session will work. But I agreed to go on the proviso that we weren't going with the express reason to save or end the marriage. We're going to get answers. I'm dreading it.

 

[lisaf]

Well don't let it turn into a session of him stating all the things he doesn't like about you. I don't think you can take that right now.

 

[Peach Blossom]

No, you're right. I'm feeling stronger than I have and if I can just look at the situation objectively and block out emotions then I'll be ok. Love you girls.

 

[SBB]

Aw Jess good luck Hun I really hope it goes well...

Sounds exciting that you'll have lots to focus on at work!

Doc said he's ok, just a viral thing and it should go in about a week... Hopefully he'll start to improve, he's been clingy and whining all day long! I just want him to feel better

Lou how's it going in the house of puke/poo?? 

X x x