Clomid Club Graduate Buddies

[Euronova]

I hate the June thread I am on. I just have a look everynow and then but they are all feeling the baby flutter at 11 weeks and post "bump" picture when really they are just obese or bloated. If you have a bump early it's not under your belly button yet! That's just gas or fat!
One girl on there is really nice and we comments on our journals when I bother updating mine!
Also as I am end of June most of them are already thinking about their 20 weeks scan and actually about a third have had their date changed to end of may so I always feel way behind them!
Anyway that's the bitching over! Lol
I think you tend to have more in common with people who had a similar TTC story... And I love the fact that you girls have so much experience between you!

 

[kcw81]

I agree V it is weird, I mean women who take clomid to get pregnant bond together because they are in it for the long haul, its not just a happy surprise or whatever and generally we would are more mature (aka - older) but alsofirst time moms! Except Chell and Verna of course!

 

[babyloulou]

Hi Case! Is your foof stinging??

Ben's being sick again All over his cot, himself, the floor! It's a week since it started! My poor baby I'm going to have to take him to the docs tomorrow definitely!

On a brighter note though....... It's snowing here!!! 

 

[kcw81]

Yay snow Lou! Fun! Sorry about Ben. He'll get better soon, can't be much longer. My foof is smooth and hairless thank you for asking! Ha.

 

[lisaf]

Lol... love you girls, just checking in today. I got to sleep in, then we had to move furniture and then clean up all our crap, lol

I feel so bad for asking my parents to help with a down payment. I don't think we'll be moving on buying until we're out of this place, but I asked them before I knew that. My mom calls me every Sunday and she didn't call me today (emailed me to say she wanted to talk to my dad first about the email). It was really hard for me to ask them and I hate doing it.
Now though I don't think we'll be doing it for a couple of years so we can get ourselves situated better finanically.

 

[Euronova]

it's hard to ask parents, i need to ask mine about lending me the money for the delivery (my insurance will pay back and i will be able to give it back to them within 6 months or so) but it's difficult for me as all my brothers and sister are loaded and i know they would not be short of just £3000 for a down payment for the hospital...
it's just i don't want to pay on a credit card and be charged loads of interests... anyway...
just maybe tell your mum it's not on the card anymore so it eases up the conversation?

 

[Peach Blossom]

V, get a 0% interest Credit card for 6 months? Then you won't feel beholden to anyone...

 

[SBB]

Grrrr I got my Scan appt - 26th of january!!

Wtf I'll be well over 12 weeks then. I've just called and they've reluctantly told me to come in 29th december. Stupid woman was like 'we think you are 6 weeks' err and how the frick do you know that?!

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

Oh man, that's ages!!! I'm paying for a private one for you! I want to know!!!

 

[SBB]

Haha !!

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

That is ages Suz!! I'll lend you the money for a private one! Idiots!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Joe has Lili today... he just text to say he had to leave at 5.30 and that his mum was going over to give her dinner and put her to bed. I'm so angry... He shouldn't be palming her off on other people... And he only just told me not this morning when he should have done. He's just sent me a tirade syaing I was being unreasonable and unfair... I haven't even started being unreasonable! God, I think I'm going to cry... I'm at work though...

 

[SBB]

Argh Jess he is such a tool what's so urgent that he didn't know about before? I honestly don't know how you're putting up with all his shit

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

Apparently he has to pick up his passport and visa for India... why can't he do it tomorrow morning?! Ugh, I'm so over it. I'm calling the solicitor at lunch time...

 

[babyloulou]

He's really taking the piss!!

 

[SBB]

be strong

X x x

 

[kcw81]

Ugh Jess! Why'd he want her if he can't handle taking care of her. It's just one day.

 

[Peach Blossom]

That's my point exactly! I said to him "having her for the day means just that, not palming her off on someone else". He said that I was trying to find sticks to beat him with. He said I couldn't have it both ways. I can't complain he neglects her then get angry when he does, but has to leave early... I'm starting to think I'm going mad... I'm not being unreasonable am I?!!

 

[SBB]

No you're not. He's handing you the sticks to beat him with!

I'd like to beat him with a stick.

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

I don't know about stick I think he's handing you the whole fucking tree! You're not being unreasonable at all