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[lisaf]

I won't say what I'd like to do with a stick to him

Considering his task CAN be done another time and that this is his first time having her, no, I don't think thats unreasonable. Do you think he held off telling you that other part because he thought you might not let him have her if he wasn't going to be the one with her all day?
If so, then that is extremely under-handed. The most important thing in co-parenting is being open and honest. You cannot trust him with her if he is going to play tricks like that. I mean, imagine 5 years down the road, you guys are split, but you guys have a rule about no dating partners watching Lili alone. And what if he pulls this crap on you with a girlfriend and waits until he has Lili for the day to inform you that something came up?

 

[Peach Blossom]

Exactly Lisa! I just can't trust him or depend on him... Apparently he only found out about the passport this morning. And I know from his calendar that he has to go to Paris tomorrow, but he said that he needs is for India which isn't until friday... :growl: Someone needs to knock some sense in to him. He cannot play these games otherwise I will just refuse to let him see her.... Oh, and I'm changing the locks on my flat!

 

[lisaf]

good call on the locks! After him spending the night there I'm glad you're doing it.
Also... is there a reason he can't bring Lili over to get his passport? I mean its something mom's have to do all the time, right? run errands while watchign the baby...

 

[kcw81]

I am sorry Jess! I am hoping things get smoother in the future with Lilli sharing. I want you guys to get along and have trust so it isn't conflicts! Communication is so important. Sheesh man I am so sorry this has all happened. All of it. Love you girl.

 

[Peach Blossom]

Exactly! Although he says he has to leave at 5.30 which is just before she has her bath and smack bang in the middle of the night time routine, so I would prefer for him to not do it.

 

[lisaf]

But why does he have to leave at 5:30? Can't he pick up his passport any time during the day?

 

[Peach Blossom]

You'd think so! Argh... so annoyed. Anyway... got my "date" at the weekend!

 

[lisaf]

Hate to say it, but is it possible he has a date and is using the passport as an excuse?

 

[Peach Blossom]

I don't think he would dare... But then again what do I know?!

Has your mum phoned you yet?

 

[lisaf]

nope, haven't heard from my mom... I think I need to email them, but I need to clear with my husband first that we are deferring any requests for their help for now. I don't want to tell them we don't need help and then have my husband push forward with it right now.
I'm ok with them figuring out what they can do to help as long as they don't go cashing out investments right now thinking I'm asking for the money tomorrow, you know?

 

[SBB]

I'm sure they wouldn't do that without speaking to you Lisa!! Maybe just say you're not sure what's happening right now but you're prob going to wait...

Jess, def change the locks. He is being such a dick.

X x x

 

[Euronova]

Hey Girls,
Just had a quick look at the posts, good call on changing the locks Jess... he really isn't doing anything to make it easy on you! what a tool!
Suz, I think we need to do a paypal collection for you to have a scan early! I'm dying to know how far along you are!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Aw, Lisa, so tough. I'm sure they wouldn't do anything so major without discussing it with you.

 

[SBB]

Lol it's only 3 weeks V!! You can wait! We could afford it but really it's hardly an essential is it?!

x x x

 

[Euronova]

True.... Just so excited to know! Told my boss today! He is gay and said so I have 9 more months of you.... I had to laugh! Then told him actually more like 6 months!
Scan is in a week tomorrow! So so can't wait!
How often is it safe to use the doppler? I think I will have another go tomorrow, last time was saturday.

 

[babyloulou]

I used it everyday for the first few months V. It's only a microphone - won't do any harm xx

 

[SBB]

Aw glad you told your boss! Yeh I used mine frequently, not every day though but won't do harm if you do!

Note to self: eat grapefruit = almost puke

X x x

 

[Euronova]

Note to self, there was a reason why I did not fancy prawn for the last week weeks.... Prawn ravioli = nearly puke too! Lol
Felt so fine yesterday but so nauseous again tonight....
I fell I am getting closer to the end of the sickness though!

 

[SBB]

Prawn ravioli although I am veggie so would hardly like the sound of that!!

I actually went and sat by the toilet I really thought i was going to puke

Last night grey cat got in our bed in the middle of the night, and puked on Danny! Thankfully it didn't go on the covers. The cat then puked on the floor and Danny trod on it!! he was not amused, and it took me bloody ages to get back to sleep...

Speaking of which, I'm going to get ready for bed. Changed the sheets in case of any puke flecks and I love getting into new sheets!

X x x

 

[lisaf]

lol, poor Danny!